Do vows (promises to God) have to be spoken to be valid/binding?

carl unger said:

Thanks for responding.

Firstly, are you trying to answer my question.
Secondly, it can be debated weather that verse is referring to vows.

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No, if someone makes a vow to God it would not have to be spoken, He is the discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart....as a man thinks in his heart so he is.

From Eccl. 5

1Guard your steps as you go to the house of God and draw near to listen rather than to offer the sacrifice of fools; for they do not know they are doing evil. 2Do not be hasty in word or impulsive in thought to bring up a matter in the presence of God For God is in heaven and you are on the earth; therefore let your words be few.
3For the dream comes through much effort and the voice of a fool through many words.
4When you make a vow to God, do not be late in paying it; for He takes no delight in fools Pay what you vow!
5It is better that you should not vow than that you should vow and not pay.
6Do not let your speech cause you to sin and do not say in the presence of the messenger of God that it was a mistake. Why should God be angry on account of your voice and destroy the work of your hands?
7For in many dreams and in many words there is emptiness. Rather, fear God.

It would be better to not vow. But, having done it and failed, there might be some divine discipline attached to it. I'd think a person would have enough humility to take their lumps and learn to keep their mouth shut. God is merciful and forgiving, but forgiveness does not mean there is not consequence for sin. Discipline is designed to bring us closer to God, is not always punitive and for our benefit. Learning to appreciate it is not always easy.

Beasley