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Difficult Forum Responses

Mark Downham

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I have come to the conclusion that most of the contentious posts are actually questioning each other over principles of exegesis (drawing out the intended meaning of scripture) and eisegesis (reading meaning into scripture from extra-biblical perspectives).

The adversarial nature of the exchanges intensifies when suggestions of eisegesis are made, whereas the contentions over exegesis are summed up by an observation Paul made:

2 Corinthians 10:12


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For we are not bold to class or compare ourselves with some of those who commend themselves; but when they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they are without understanding.

I have been doing this and observing the way the posts are used to measure and rank each other and then challenge the alignments and assigned rankings - I now repent.

I should have been doing this:

2 Corinthians 10:3 -5


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3For though we walk (live) in the flesh, we are not carrying on our warfare according to the flesh and using mere human weapons.

4For the weapons of our warfare are not physical [weapons of flesh and blood], but they are mighty before God for the overthrow and destruction of strongholds, 5[Inasmuch as we] refute arguments and theories and reasonings and every proud and lofty thing that sets itself up against the [true] knowledge of God; and we lead every thought and purpose away captive into the obedience of Christ (the Messiah, the Anointed One)







I was becoming carnal in how I engaged other people and not walking in the Spirit and commenting in love.

Mark
 

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Thank you OreGal and Mark D.

I too have seen, and been guilty of some pride through these posts, and I have been in repentence too. Through my comments I have had some praise from others, and I feel very uncomfortable with this, as God demands that I offer my comments and prayers for the person themselves, not for what may come back to me. I see the "blessings" pile up and have been convicted that 'am I on this forum for them or for the purpose of edifying our God through the posts'?

I would sooner never post again than bring wrong attention to myself.

Thank you for bringing this to us in love and humility.
 
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ydouxist

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I tend to have more tolerance and compassion for non Christians on this board than I have for Christians. It's hard sometimes not to lash out. I stopped posting here for a while because of some of the responses I got or lack there of.

The word says "In your anger do not sin" it doesn't say don't be angry.
How we handle it is the key.

Good thread.
 
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heartofheaven

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your right, me too,I am fairly new to the forum,and been a christian for quite sometime,but because of rejection and trying to defend myself......have had bad responses....... lashed back out.........and because of it ,I had to leave for while,too. I believe the Lord would want to do a new thing with me with people,and how to be able to deal with what others say and how to handle it, because there are areas in my life that need it. We all need people, that is fact,iron sharpens iron, and if we could take out what the Lord has for each one of us from one another,then maybe the trip to heaven wont seem as if it could never happen.for I have wondered and asked the Lord how are we going to do it there,if we cant do it here??Is that why He hasn't come yet??? ...........hmmmmmmmmmmmmm Good Q.,hah?
 
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cinni

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I think gettig edifiction from respondng to someones post is just wrong i often come to this board in particular when i am seeking an answer to something as so many do i do not come here to argue but if i see someone genuinely wanting help with someting i will respond because i feel i have something uselful to say that might help not to draw attention to myself.

I think this is a good thread to really make us consider what is important about why we are here i remember when i joined i did not join for reps or blessings but i wa seeking other christians who struggle liek i do.

I think we have alot of insiteful people here with a great gift for helping others.
 
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