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The bible also teaches us to replace what is not of God within us, with what is of God. A good example of this is Philippians 4:4-9 that teaches us to replace the reflex of anxiety with trusting God and prayer instead.
 
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For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness;and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love. (2nd Peter 1:5-7)

This passage and others like it are helpful because it gives steps on what to add in increasing measure until the whole thing fits together like the way we breathe.
 
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Awesome, thank you. Do you have any more you’d like to share with me?
I think the above are all that I am reminded of at the moment. I hope it helps.
 
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1) Anything and everything in the book of Proverbs

2) The Sermon on the Mount (Matthew Chapters 5, 6 & 7

3) The letter of James (it's only five chapters, but packed with vitamins and iron)

 
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Read 2 Tim 2:15 and 1 Cor 11:1 ,

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Hi everyone, I have a strong desire to be a great man of God........
Hello RawStrength, here's a short passage, Mark 10:35-45, that you may find helpful in your pursuit of greatness as a Christian (take special note of v43-45, and of v45 alone, as it is the key or central verse of Mark's Gospel).

Also, here are a couple of short articles on the topic for you to consider as well.



God bless you!!

--David



2 Corinthians 12
7 Because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, for this reason, to keep me from exalting myself,
there was given me a thorn in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to torment me—to keep me from exalting myself!
8 Concerning this I implored the Lord three times that it might leave me.
9 And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for ~power is perfected in weakness.~”
Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.
10 Therefore I am well content with weaknesses, with insults, with distresses, with persecutions, with
difficulties, for Christ’s sake; ~for when I am weak, then I am strong~.
 
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I am still struggling with indulgence, explosive anger, depression, finances, and a few other things.
Hello again RawStrength, I'll give you a few verses/passages that come to mind about some of these things and we can talk about them later if you'd like to.

Psalm 1
1 How blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked,
Nor stand in the path of sinners,
Nor sit in the seat of scoffers!
2 But his delight is in the law of the LORD,
And in His law he meditates day and night.
3 He will be like a tree firmly planted by streams of water,
Which yields its fruit in its season
And its leaf does not wither;
And in whatever he does, he prospers.
Psalm 37
4 Delight ~yourself~ in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.
Psalm 119
9 How can a young man keep his way pure? By keeping it according to Thy word.
11 Thy word I have treasured/hidden in my heart, that I may not sin against Thee.
John 17
17 Sanctify them by Your truth. Your word is truth.
Romans 12
2 Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.
2 Corinthians 10
5 We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we ~take captive every thought~ to make it obedient to Christ.
Galatians 5
19 The deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: immorality, impurity, sensuality,
20 idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions,
21 envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you, just as I have forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
Ephesians 4
22 You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires;
23 to be made new in the attitude of your minds;
24 and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.
2 Timothy 3
16 All Scripture is inspired by God (lit. "God-breathed") and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness;
17 so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.

I constantly am surrounded by destructive people, and I have little time when my mind is at ease, if any at all.
Proverbs 3
5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.
6 In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.
Proverbs 13
20 He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.
Proverbs 15
22 Without consultation, plans are frustrated, but with many counselors they succeed.
1 Corinthians 15
33 Do not be deceived: “Bad company corrupts good morals.”
2 Corinthians 6
14 Do not be bound together/unequally yoked with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?
15 Or what harmony has Christ with Belial, or what has a believer in common with an unbeliever?
16 Or what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the living God; just as God said,
“I WILL DWELL IN THEM AND WALK AMONG THEM;
AND I WILL BE THEIR GOD, AND THEY SHALL BE MY PEOPLE.
17 “Therefore, COME OUT FROM THEIR MIDST AND BE SEPARATE,” says the Lord.
1 Thessalonians 5
16 Rejoice always;
17 pray without ceasing;
18 in everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

God bless you!!

--David
p.s. - the following quote has been very helpful to me, especially when I find myself at some kind of crossroad in life and am in need of making a decision about the best way to go or the best thing to do next.

 
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A person can read the Bible from cover to cover, repeatedly, over a period of 100 years or more, and that would not help them to "be a great man of" God, or put away "indulgence, explosive anger, depression", etc.

What you need, is first... a correct knowledge of God and Christ (John 17:3); a correct knowledge of truth (1 Timothy 2:3, 4).
These will motivate you to build a relationship with God, and live your life in harmony with God's will.

Second... Once you build such a relationship, you will work at maintaining it, and what will help you to do so, is regular fellowship with God's people (Hebrews 10:23, 24), which in turn will encourage you to do regular personal study and meditation on God's word (Psalm 1:1-3), and participate regularly in Christian activity (2 Timothy 4:2, 5).

These will help you conquer any wrong habits and conduct, and be a complete man of God. 2 Peter 1:2-9
Pray about these things, and God will supply you, if you are sincere in heart.
 
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I apologize for my lack of clarity.
I don't think you understood clearly, but it's my fault. Not your.

I'm aware that simply reading biblical text will not change me, or anyone, I'm not that ignorant, but thank you for telling me so, in case I was.
I was not suggesting this.
Reading; thinking; meditating... These are all good, but they will not get you what you are aiming at, without those things I mentioned.

One must have a strong will to follow God, do the right thing, give up sinful habits, have faith, serve others in a positive way, and be diligent in all of these actions.
This is correct, but those two things I mentioned, are what helps. Strong will by itself, is not enough.
Many people have a willingness to do what is right. They are sincere, but they lack. Why?

What I'm asking for are scriptures or stories to enlighten me, and provide me a message on how to control these habits so I can apply them to my life.
I understand. Thank you.
So you are looking for encouragement, or motivation.
Am I understanding you correctly?

Okay, here is what I can offer.
God has a people. They are a united people... which means they speak in agreement.
They fellowship together, and are united in what they learn, or are taught. 1 Corinthians 1:10; 1 Corinthians 11:3; 1 Corinthians 12:19-27; 1 Corinthians 14:13
God's holy spirit flows among them, and guides them through God's appointed ones. Acts 20:28; Hebrews 13:17; 1 Thessalonians 5:12, 13

The result is "oneness of the Spirit in the bond of peace [each individual working together to make the whole successful]." Ephesians 4:3
The spirit along with the knowledge of the truth of God's word, can help us to be united in every good work (2 Timothy 3:16, 17). So, imagine if one is immersed in it, because of being in the environment where if flows.

I like to collect as much truth and important information as possible from genuine people.
I believe you are sincere, and it seems you are searching.
Trying to collecting as much truth as possible from the scriptures is a good thing.

I agree with everything you said, and thank you for taking the time to provide me with some good advice and scripture. On the second thing you said, this forum has actually been helping me do so, although I need to also start going to a good church.
Perhaps you are hoping to find "a good church" by asking questions here.
If you find the good Church, that will help... which is the point I was making there.

Seeing people actually listen to what I have to say, and caring enough to provide genuine advice and not look down on me is definitely encouraging me to keep on moving, study, and help other people at a more consistent rate.
I understand now that you were looking for encouragement and motivation.
I did not realize that before, sorry.
I will try to remember this for future.

Thank you Corey, that was great.
Thank you.
 
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Okay, thanks.
You would need then, the correct knowledge of God and Christ (John 17:3); a correct knowledge of truth (1 Timothy 2:3, 4), and regular fellowship with God's people (Hebrews 10:23, 24), which in turn will encourage you to do regular personal study and meditation on God's word (Psalm 1:1-3), and participate regularly in Christian activity (2 Timothy 4:2, 5).

Pray about these things, and God will supply you, if you are sincere in heart.
I'm glad to hear you understood.
Thanks for sharing.
All the best.
 
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Hi @RawStrength. Hope you are well his morning.
How did yesterday go?

I want to apologize to you, since I made a couple mistakes earlier, and I believe the spirit is urging me to correct those.
Please don't tell me, I don't have to apologize. I have to. I made mistakes.

First. The scripture I reference - Hebrews 10:23, 24, should really have been Hebrews10:24, 25. Big difference.

The second mistake I made was failing to be empathetic.
I looked back at your OP, and realized, I read it superficially, without reflecting on the spirit of it. Sorry about that.

You said...

The last sentence says everything, and I had overlooked this.
I can more understand your struggle, by thinking about that.

This world is not easy on anyone trying to go against it.
It can be compared to being in slime, and as you lift yourself up, and attempt to move out of it, you are hit from behind with a load of slime from a bucket.
Or, it can be compared to being in a building with toxic fumes, and you are without a gas mask.

The apostle Paul said it is the spirit of the ruler of the authority of the air Ephesians 2:1, 2
in which once you walked according to the age of this world, according to the ruler of the authority of the air, the spirit now working in the sons of disobedience,

Being bombarded each day with this atmosphere, makes it hard for anyone to walk in the light.
Though hard, it can be done, if we feed and meditate on God's word daily, keep focused on the work Jesus gave his followers, and look forward to, and fellowship with God's people.
These refresh us, and give us the protection we need to get through this dark world.

We need the "complete armor of God".
Ephesians 6:11-18
11 Put on the complete armor of God, for you to be able to stand against the schemes of the devil,
12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this world’s darkness, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.
13 Therefore take up the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you will be able to stand your ground, and having done everything, to stand.
14 Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness arrayed,
15 and with your feet fitted with the readiness of the gospel of peace.
16 In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one.
17 And take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.
18 Pray in the Spirit at all times, with every kind of prayer and petition. To this end, stay alert with all perseverance in your prayers for all the saints.

We need each piece of equipment, if our armor is to be complete.
No soldier of Christ will survive an all out direct attack from the wicked one, if he fails to put on every piece of spiritual armor from God.

Did you notice the first piece of armor Paul mentioned? The belt - Truth.
If we do not have a correct knowledge of truth (John 17:3; 1 Timothy 2:3, 4; Romans 10:2), we don't stand a chance.
We need the other pieces though. All.

With regard to anger, a scripture you can reflect on, is Galatians 5.
16 So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. 17 For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want. 18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.​
19 The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20 idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21 and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.​
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. 24 Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25 Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. 26 Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.​

How though, can one "walk by the Spirit", or be led by or influenced by the spirit?
What do you think needs to be in place, for that to be possible?
 
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Hello again @RawStrength, the easiest way to create a PM/Private Message (aka "Start Conversation") is to click on a member's name or avatar and then click on "Start Conversation" at the bottom of the little window that pops up.

I believe that you need to have 25 messages and 10 likes to do so however, so as soon as you post 1 more message I believe that you will be able to create and/or participate in a PM with other members.

God bless you!!

--David
p.s. - we can just continue to talk to one another right here in your thread too, of course
 
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