[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]In the end, dating after divorce or widowhood is like any other life event it is about embracing the challenge and having fun!!
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Yes I know that, but I can't give up until I know that God wants me to.
no really.
Hello to all that have answered on this thread "Dating after widowhood". I have been a widow now for 12 years. Last year I finally was at the point of wanting to date again. I met a man and fell deeply in love with him after only a few months. I thought he was in love with me also. At least he said he was. Well, last week he ended our "friendship", and my heart is broke. I am mourning again but not like I did when my husband died. I am mourning a different mourning. I feel I let myself totally open to being hurt without even realizing it. I am not a young woman, and to feel the heartache I am feeling right now, is far more than I could imagine. I truly believed this friendship was from the Lord from the very beginning, but I must have been wrong because it no longer exists. There are many Scriptures I have found that are a comfort to me, but at the same time there are days when I just feel so all alone again. I am writing this so that you can pray for me that I will allow the Lord to use this in my life to bring me closer to Him.
Christian Widow
i hope someone out there finds what i have to say useful. i lost my husband in 2003 and because i built my world around him, it was really so difficult to live again but glory to God i already had a relationship with the holy spirit and he told me about the need to let 'him go' that was the word. there is no maariage in heaven and i believe that we would recognise each other in heaven but we wont continue as man and wife. marraige is earthly and created for our pleasure and to take care of aloneness in our lives. adam had God's presence with him in the garden but God still said 'it is not good for man to be alone' . i want to marry again and i have been faced with many disppointments from men who do not have the courage to be a father to my children. i have chosen to believe the children are a blessing and at God's appointed time, my godly husband will show up.
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