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. . . .Who has chosen the better path?
Perhaps, we will know more about the direction of the Communion when we have a new ABC and the reaction to him. In the end, if the Communion is broken . . .
How will we know if (and when) the Communion is broken?
...Scottish Monk
...Dialogue is better than breaking, disagreement is natural.
When an old couple who had been married 70 years was asked by a reporter, "How have you been married so long?", they replied, "Because, in our day, when something was broken, we didn't throw it away...We fixed it."
I think that the way of the world in general and the way of members/former members of the Communion in particular could learn from this. So often we would rather just split off and throw our Unity away rather than actually spend the effort to fix the issues between us in a way that is constructive rather than destructive.
Well, and I don't mean to disagree, but there's all this talk all over the internet of who's in, who's out, who's impaired, is the Communion broken/breaking/about to break, etc. It's been like that for 10 years. But when one looks at the official sources, everyone who is supposed to be in Communion with the Archbishop and Lambeth is in Communion with them. Not showing up is very serious, but they haven't taken the step of formally withdrawing in any real sense.We will know much in the months after the new ABC is named. In many senses, the burden is on GAFCON to come back to primate meetings and a more normal relationship with the Communion as a whole.
In a sense the Communion will be over when the next Lambeth is convened and GAFCON doesn't show up.
TEC could have listened to Lambeth's requests instead of doing things that they knew would alienate people. It's not right to intentionally upset people and then demand that they cave and cave and cave until they have nothing recognizable left. If we are an Apostolic Church, we don't need to change our doctrines to suit the fads of the times.Episcoboi...
Dialogue: How do we fix the issues?
...Scottish Monk
Episcoboi...
Dialogue: How do we fix the issues?
...Scottish Monk
TEC could have listened to Lambeth's requests instead of doing things that they knew would alienate people. It's not right to intentionally upset people and then demand that they cave and cave and cave until they have nothing recognizable left. If we are an Apostolic Church, we don't need to change our doctrines to suit the fads of the times.
Well, and I don't mean to disagree, but there's all this talk all over the internet of who's in, who's out, who's impaired, is the Communion broken/breaking/about to break, etc. It's been like that for 10 years. But when one looks at the official sources, everyone who is supposed to be in Communion with the Archbishop and Lambeth is in Communion with them. Not showing up is very serious, but they haven't taken the step of formally withdrawing in any real sense.
I only share this because these discussions have negatively impacted friends of mine. I knew people who wanted to become Anglican but didn't do so, because they "heard on the news" that TEC was about to be kicked out. They "read on the internet" that the Communion was about to formally split in two. Several years later, none of that has happened. So from my point of view, I'll wait until something formal happens before declaring formal schisms.
I wouldn't be surprised if in a few decades there is a rapprochement between ACNA and TEC. As a different generation takes over the reigns of these Churches they will not feel the sting of enmity that their forbears did. I have seen many impaired communions restored to full communion. The Patriarchal Serbian Church reunited with the Free Serbian Church. The Unification of the two Antiochian jurisdictions here in the USA, and the most impressive was the reunification of ROCOR with the Moscow Patriarchate after being apart for over 80 years. Neither side in these reunifications pointed fingers or blame they simply said we are brothers and sisters and we belong together.
On the same page.The situation in the US is different from GAFCON itself. ACNA is not part of the Anglican Communion. They are recognized by many primates, but they are not part of the Communion. They left, some as Contimuing churches, some later. Do you disagree?
Of course I agree.TEC is a member of the Anglican Communion as much as GAFCON. The situation is similar. TEC and the Communion are also having issues between them.
If one maintains that there is no breakup of the Communion, then TEC is the US province of that Communion. Do you disagree?
We can disagree. It's OK. We're Anglican after all. . . . . .
This breaks my heart...the possibility of the Communion breaking.
Personally, I agree with the decisions the Episcopal Church has made over the last few years (and decades). But, we are not forcing any other province to adopt any of our stances. And I fail to see how maintaining communion with us is going to somehow harm the Provinces that don't agree with us. Unity in diversity...Dialogue is better than breaking, disagreement is natural.
When an old couple who had been married 70 years was asked by a reporter, "How have you been married so long?", they replied, "Because, in our day, when something was broken, we didn't throw it away...We fixed it."
I think that the way of the world in general and the way of members/former members of the Communion in particular could learn from this. So often we would rather just split off and throw our Unity away rather than actually spend the effort to fix the issues between us in a way that is constructive rather than destructive.
The same is true with many other issues. How to reconcile women bishops with those who don't think that women can be bishops? What about the priests a female bishop ordains? Does a visitor have to look up who ordained a priest before visiting his parish?
Unless we want to reduce the idea of being In Communion to something as meaningless as being friendly, it has to have some substance to it. At the least, we have to be able to practice our faith together.
Diversity is no great thing in and off itself. It can be good or bad or neutral, and I am not sure why people are at such great pains to think it is always "healthy". Diversity can mean you actually believe really different things.
Dialogue can just be a way of avoiding calling something what it is. "Having a conversation" as they like to say can be nothing more than a sort of self-indulgent avoidance of making a statement. When you have pushed others out by refusing to really truly submit yourself to them, saying that you would like to "have a conversation" while they are haughtily turning their backs can be a great way to make yourself feel the victim.
There is a limit to what can be reconciled and have two groups remain in communion. Some things are not logically reconcilable even from a live and let live perspective if we want to say we are in communion.
I think you've said it well. "Communion" doesn't just mean there's an agreement to share the sacraments, etc. Such an arrangement to share is possible BECAUSE there exists an agreement on the essentials of the faith. When that situation ceases, communion is necessarily jeopardized.
And those who believe that having a male priesthood is an "essential of our faith" have left the Communion. After all, essentials are defined by individuals in their personal prayer and personal understanding of Scripture.
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