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Stanfi said:So many people on this forum think that divorced people should be treated like second class citizens. I don't agree with that.
Stanfi said:Well, I have been seeing this woman for over a month now. She has a good relationship with God, I often think she has some room to grow, but then again don't we all, and I do beleive that she is willing to grow.
Both marriages were not within in her control, she didn't make the decision to end them the other person did.
The thing I have learned about her is that due to her relationship experience, she has a higher level a maturity, she looks for deeper longer lasting qualities in a person. The things she likes about me is my faith, that I am a caring person, and she admires the fact that I am a very handy person around the house, meaning I know how to use tools and fix things.
So many people on this forum think that divorced people should be treated like second class citizens. I don't agree with that.
eatenbylocusts said:Having been divorced and never wanting to again, I can say that it has also changed the way I date. I won't go out with a non-christian and I find out the important stuff right away. Looks aren't in my top 10 anymore.
Stanfi said:Both marriages were not within in her control, she didn't make the decision to end them the other person did.
mamabear56 said:After 2 divorces, trust becomes a major issue for some.
MadFingerPainter said:I also wonder if being married when both are unsaved makes a difference. I've been divorced twice but both were not Christian marriages. I feel like now I could handle a relationship better but it would still be a struggle because I haven't got any self-confidence or self-esteem left. I have to admit...I fear the idea of getting into another relationship because it seems that no matter how much I give or try to make it work...I always get burned.
So many people on this forum think that divorced people should be treated like second class citizens. I don't agree with that.
Oh, well. Since we're dredging up the past..... This bf that I spoke of here who had been divorced twice was the most critical bf I've ever had. I can imagine why two women initiated the divorces.I think the most important concern is what is her relationship with God like now and has it changed in the last 5 years?
My bf was married at a young age and his wife left him. The second marriage (military) lasted only 18 months after she was shipped out 6 months into the marriage. He tried to reconcile with both women. He got counseling after the second one and he shared with me what he had learned about the reasons he was choosing certain women.
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