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chriso

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Just like when food is too bland. Add some seasoning. Go out on a date, spend a whole evening just concentrating on each other. Write "Love notes" to your partner and leave them where they can find them in their car, sock drawer, pillow, ect. Try to make your partner fell they are soo special to you. Buy them little gifts. Cute surprises. Just get away from the HUM Drum.
 
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Lizzi4Christ

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Make it interesting! I start the weirdest conversations. Sometimes I talk about a weird TV show or movie and that's jolts it. Sometimes about something I've done stupid. Make up weird topics!

Examples.
What would you think if I dyed my hair purple with black stars?
-you:Yo quiero un gato morado
- your SO: huh?
- I want a purple cat!
 
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Hewitt

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I totally agree with the previous suggestions but would like to add another as well. It depends on the relationship, but sometimes you just need to chill for a little while. In the past, I know there were times where we just couldn't communicate because we had been talking so much that there just wasn't anything left. Of course this only applies to dating relationships, but sometimes a little time to regroup can work wonders, especially if you use some of that time to spend with God.
 
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