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That is indeed good news! We can but hope

See, if wide-spread circumcision really did help curb HIV infections, I'd be all for its state-sponsorship in places like Botswana.
 
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Isn't that somewhat dangerous to the child? I'm loathe to quote tabloids, but I remember reading about this rash of infant deaths when Rabbis with oral herpes, when performing a circumcision, infected the kids (if memory serves, traditional circumcision involves the Rabbi placing his mouth on the child's penis and removing the severed foreskin orally). Even if we can't get Jewish communities to stop circumcising their kids, there's surely nothing in the Torah or Talmud to prevent hospital circumcisions... so, why do Jews not usually get hospital circumcisions?
 
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That is indeed good news! We can but hope


See, if wide-spread circumcision really did help curb HIV infections, I'd be all for its state-sponsorship in places like Botswana.
I would try to help them out even more by giving them condoms by the shipping container! I have the feeling a condom (physical barrier) is much more effective at preventing the spread of H.I.V. than one's foreskin status. Just my unscientific guess
 
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The practice you described is only carried out by certain mohels. It isn't Jewish law that it must be done anyway like that. I do not agree with any method that uses the mouth. Well except to say prayers. Most families have a party during the bris. I don't know of many hospitals that would allow a celebration and a mohel to perform the ritual.
 
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I think its fine to circumcise males after theyre born. Its a perfectly harmless and benefitial procedure.

Should it be unethical to feed newborns vitamins just because they didn't give you consent?

You haven't read like, any of this thread, have you?
 
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How can we know that the procedure is more painful for adults than for infants? Infants can't talk yet.

That's true, but it would seem it is an easier procedure for an infant than for an adult. I only know of one man who was circumcised later, due to his foreskin not fully retracting once he went through puberty. It caused him a great deal of discomfort, so he and his mother opted for a circumcision when he was in his late-teens. He said the recovery was horrific and to this day cannot urinate a single stream, rather it sprays everywhere.
 
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In countries where routine circumcision is not practiced, only a small percentage of men have to go through the procedure due to congenital defects. Most foreskins are not defective.

It would seem that it is an easier procedure for an infant girl to be circumcised than for an adult woman. I would not recommend this for either gender to have done routinely if no congenital defect is found.
 
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Why would it matter if the Jewish faith does it when it's a matter of ethics? I don't see anyone saying "it's impossible to prevent female circumcision because X religion thinks its a command from their god." It's the same argument.
 
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You're comparing the circumcision of healthy babies to medically necessary circumcision of older children or adults. With medically necessary circumcision there's something wrong with their foreskin or penis so it doesn't surprise me that it is a painful experience. We don't know that it's less painful for babies so that's not relevant. But the majority of men do not need a circumcision. I still see no argument to circumcise every infant (unnecessary procedure causing discomfort and pain for every male baby, who can not consent) just because a small percentage will need a circumcision later anyway (necessary procedure causing discomfort and pain for a small percentage of males, who can consent).
 
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Why would it matter if the Jewish faith does it when it's a matter of ethics? I don't see anyone saying "it's impossible to prevent female circumcision because X religion thinks its a command from their god." It's the same argument.

I see what you are saying. As I said, though, it is going to be nearly impossible to stop. Even if you took our babies for over the 8 days, Jews would probably just do it after then.

Basically, to Judaism, it is perfectly ethical. That an outside power deems it not so has never really deterred Jews before. It usually just makes the commitment stronger.
 
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I think its fine to circumcise males after theyre born. Its a perfectly harmless and benefitial procedure.
The benefit of circumcision is both dubious (the mild medical boon is tentatively proposed at best) and irrelevant (the issue is consent, not boon), and if you think it's perfectly harmless, feel free to ask any man who's had one done, when old enough to remember.

Should it be unethical to feed newborns vitamins just because they didn't give you consent?
No, because vitamins are a medical necessity - we don't have the luxury of waiting for the infant to grow old enough to give consent. Thus, we defer to the next best thing: the parents. Circumcision is not a medical necessity, therefore we do have the luxury of waiting for the infant to grow up.

And in those cases where circumcision is a medical necessity? Well, you won't find anyone who opposes it. When we can wait for a person to consent before cut parts of their body off, we should. When we can't (e.g., if they're in a coma and need an amputation, or are infants who need special dietary needs), we defer to the next best thing.

Simples.
 
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If it's medically warranted (e.g., phimosis), then sure, snip away. At least then there's an objective reason to do so. But if the infant has a perfectly healthy and normal penis, why should we even consider cutting bits of it off?
 
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If it's medically warranted (e.g., phimosis), then sure, snip away. At least then there's an objective reason to do so. But if the infant has a perfectly healthy and normal penis, why should we even consider cutting bits of it off?

I'd like to know also, why --assuming god exists-- he would want us to be circumsized?
 
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I'd like to know also, why --assuming god exists-- he would want us to be circumsized?
A Jewish man on here told me it was a symbolic act to show the covenant was still upheld, hence why some Reform Jews use a needle to get a drop of blood. More anthropologically, it was also to keep the Jewish people a unique tribe.

But that all leads to more questions
 
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