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  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

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We do not have to agree,
Nor must we see eye to eye,
But polite, that we can be
If we want to, if we try.

Nastiness is immature.
Slandering, it has no place.
Insults, they are like manure
Being slapped onto one’s face.

Why must you dig in the dirt
Just to try to make a point?
Can’t you find a kinder way,
Or must you be out of joint?

Speak the truth, but speak in love.
Don’t put on your boxing gloves.
We can speak without a fight
If we learn to speak it right.

This not saying compromise.
This not saying to back down.
This just saying, be mature,
Learn to differ, not put-down.

Being nasty goes nowhere.
Being spiteful makes no sense.
Being hateful only hurts
Others who you may resent.

Truth is kind, though, tell it well.
Speak the truth and not the lies.
Tell how we must now repent,
And on Christ we must rely.

Love does not mean alter truth,
Pacify the caught in sin.
Tell how we must obey God,
And our sins we must relent.

An Original Work / April 28, 2025
Christ’s Free Servant, Sue J Love