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ChristianCenturion said:Additionally, it's not actually being proposed that non-Christians should have a say in the moderation on a Christian forum, is it?
I understand staff can put posts in an appeal thread that are only visible to staff, but not to the member who is appealing. I don't know for sure whether this is true or not.INFALLIBLE said:I favor the Idea of a enhanced Due process when it comes to the appeals system.
I favor the idea of being able to confront my accuser..I think that many appeals and actions are not needed if the lines of communication remained opened and uncluttered by false perceptions and bias. on both sides of the "fence"
I think that if the appeals system was given the option of being public many members would opt to use this...it would also serve a duel purpose of exposing the inner workings procedural wise when it comes to the way a appeal is processed.
It would also act to dis-spell any accusations or mis-perceived wrong doings as it would be in plain view of the membership...This of course is merely my two cents..
INFALLIBLE said:I favor the Idea of a enhanced Due process when it comes to the appeals system.
I favor the idea of being able to confront my accuser..I think that many appeals and actions are not needed if the lines of communication remained opened and uncluttered by false perceptions and bias. on both sides of the "fence"
I think that if the appeals system was given the option of being public many members would opt to use this...it would also serve a duel purpose of exposing the inner workings procedural wise when it comes to the way a appeal is processed.
It would also act to dis-spell any accusations or mis-perceived wrong doings as it would be in plain view of the membership...This of course is merely my two cents..
So I understand... does that mean you are only interested in seeing the posts dealing strickly with your own apeals? I was under the impression that this was 'open to public' in the generalized sense that was being discussed.
Jenda said:I don't know of a lot of people who are willing to air their dirty laundry in public. You talk about viewing other people's appeals, but your's would also be open for viewing. Is that OK with you?
(It's not with me.)
seebs said:You misunderstand.
I want the option of making my own appeals visible. In some cases, I do not feel that it is "dirty laundry".
That said... Even if it is, as a Christian, I am compelled to favor openness and honesty over pride.
Neverstop said:Crazy Liz resonded so well to the rest that I have nothing to add except to say that I was not aware a non-Christian made the suggestion in the OP. More importantly, I am not trying to "have a say" because I have no authority as a guest/member of CF. In my experience, suggestions seeking unity can always be beneficial, even if the suggestions are not used.
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Shannonkish said:KJ, thanks for that update. I didn't realize that this was going to be considered in the reforms!
ChristianCenturion said:However, my foundational reasoning would be that it is contradictory to Christian teaching in authority, correction, and resolving issues. Citing scripture has not proven effective in focusing the minds of those that want that feature, so I will leave that simply referenced.
Since this has been a topic or has had a small "following" in repeated requesting, I'm curious as to what the advocates for this proposed addition think will actually be brought about in way of benefits.
So even if the moderation was placed into the extreme of it was clearly correct application or clearly mishandled/in error, what benefit would it be for random (very much assumed) viewing merely for the sake of 'seeing'.
Additionally, it's not actually being proposed that non-Christians should have a say in the moderation on a Christian forum, is it?
ChristianCenturion said:You may probably be a better judge of whether you have issues concerning pride, but someone else not wanting their business open for ridicule could just as easily be an issue of shame or uncertainty. Just in case there were misconceptions regarding that, your statment compels me to express 'my' or possibly another's representation so as not be mistakenly grouped in with yours.
ChristianCenturion said:
The only cause I can see that would warrant this addition would be popular opinion pressure and second-guessing moderator actions.
Neverstop said:Please forgive me if this suggestion is a bit late...but after some prayer and thought, here is the idea.
Make Appeals optional for public viewing. Obviously no one but the Member filing the Appeal and Mods handling the Appeal in the Chain of Command would be allowed to respond. This would eliminate the question of secrecy and allow no room for doubt in the application of rule enforcement.
Furthermore, this would be a great learning tool for all CF members who are unsure about how some rules are violated.
Overall the Mods have a tremendous responsibility and it cannot be an easy job by anyones' standards. Thank you to all who so freely dedicate your time and effort to CF!
seebs said:This is why it should be an option.
BTW, shame is a kind of pride.
If we followed the scripture you didn't want to quote, then moderators would have even greater privacy than they have now at the earlier stages of the system. Right now, as I understand it, all staff are able to see all appeals. I proposed that we follow Matthew 18:15-20 more closely, and give the moderator an option to reverse the action voluntarily while the matter is still private, or to reverse the action at the second stage, where only the moderator's immediate superiors know about it, not the entire staff.ChristianCenturion said:Does that mean it should be an 'option' for the moderators too? They are after all members and entitled to their right to privacy too.
ChristianCenturion said:Does that mean it should be an 'option' for the moderators too? They are after all members and entitled to their right to privacy too.
Your only one referenced scripture has potential conflict in several areas which until now, I didn't see a need to point out. The verse mentions brothers, that is among fellow believers and moderation involves non-believers. That would be the first conflict.Crazy Liz said:If we followed the scripture you didn't want to quote, then moderators would have even greater privacy than they have now at the earlier stages of the system. Right now, as I understand it, all staff are able to see all appeals. I proposed that we follow Matthew 18:15-20 more closely, and give the moderator an option to reverse the action voluntarily while the matter is still private, or to reverse the action at the second stage, where only the moderator's immediate superiors know about it, not the entire staff.
I realize this is different from making public appeals an option. What I proposed is that all appeals become public after two opportunities to resolve the issue privately and semi-privately.
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