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Any secular justification for "Defense of Marriage"?

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No! Stay! Please stay! You're the best ammunition we've got!
 
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so what you are claiming is liberals use "Homophobic" in the same way you use "Liberal"?
 
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The definition of marriage was defined in 325AD, adopted by Rome and carried through Europe to America.

It's not debatable what the definition of marriage is

In 325 Constantine summoned the bishops of both East and West to gather at Nicea to settle the Arian controversy.

Are you suggesting that the council also met to define what marriage is?

Because I've read the Canons which the council fathers produced, as well as the Epistle they sent to Alexandria and the rest of the Egyptian churches concerning the proper calculation of the Paschal Feast. Not to even mention the Creed itself obviously.

Perhaps you could point me in the right direction.

Or did something else happen that year that I'm not aware of?

Were you thinking of the legalization of Christianity as an assumed adoption of the Empire of the Church's definition of marriage? Because the legalization of Christianity was a joint edict by both Constantine and Licinius (though spear-headed by Constantine), the Edict of Toleration was put into effect in 312.

Or perhaps you mean when the Empire made Christianity the official religion? Because that was during the reign of Theodosius I when he passed the Edict of Thessalonika in 380.

Perhaps you could be more specific.

-CryptoLutheran
 
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Yes it would be a waste of time for you to argue with people who know more than you do, seeing as you have no intention of actually realizing the error of your ways.
 
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No, it's for people who are so obsessed with it that they discriminate and sometimes use religion as an excuse for that kind of discrimination. There are plenty of other sins and many worse ones, many of which are completely legal and common in most countries, yet so many people focus so much on gays to the exclusion of everything else.

What about charity and feeding the poor? Jesus emphasized that all the time, and a lot of people not only ignore that, but even exploit and steal from the poor. If as much effort was put into opposing that as was put into opposing LGBT rights, a lot of progress could actually be made.
 
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A liberal holds to everything liberal whether they are religious or atheist. Their religion, which is supposed to trump everything as it's their RELIGION, comes second.

There's an important difference between following your religion and trying to force everyone else to follow it.
 
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No, your point does not stand. The legislature wrote a law. After review by the courts based on an injured individual petitioning for redress, that law was deemed unconstitutional. That is one of the reasons for the Supreme Court's existence, to determine whether laws are constitutional as they are applied.

This makes no sense. As I noted above, one of the reasons the Supreme Court (and by extension the lower level federal courts) exist is to determine the Constitutionality of laws written by the legislature. That isn't wading into another branches power, that is properly wielding their own.

I will admit that I do not know much about how judges are appointed in the UK. How do they receive their positions?

I have not made any such admission. In fact, I have given several examples of marriages between members of the same-sex in ancient times.

When the laws were codified, they became subject to judicial scrutiny. I don't understand why that is such a problem to understand. Also, the courts don't just decide to examine a law and rule on it. They have to have a case before them, brought by someone who has been injured by the law.

- why wasn't more effort made to get a constitutional amendment, I wonder?
Because changing the Constitution is a huge undertaking and the supporters of bans on SSM knew they didn't have the support necessary to get an Amendment passed.

There was also no precedent for recognizing marriage as the union of two different races but they did it anyway. In fact, there was precedent for upholding bans on interracial marriage in US law going back to 1691.

Tobacco-specific taxes and restrictions on advertising show a moral judgement is being made to discourage smoking... you can't convince me that there is no morality underlying those approaches.
That you can't be convinced of it, doesn't mean you are correct.

Since you ignore the points about prostitution and public nudity, should I assume you are conceding my point there?
As there are places in the US where both prostitution and public nudity are legal, I wouldn't assume anything.

Right. You want me to believe the person that raped the 9-year-old knew she was capable of bearing children and that doesn't make it pedophilia.

I have given nothing but secular arguments in this thread. The trouble is, you are defining 'secularism' to be 'anything that Queller agrees with'.
That is a flat-out lie. First, the word in question was secular not secularism. Second I define secular the exact same way Merriam-Webster does;

Secular; 1 a : of or relating to the worldly or temporal <secular concerns>

So I will ask again, on what secular reasoning could a person hold the view that homosexuality is such a danger to public morality that homosexual acts should be prohibited outright?

Well, of course, if this is your definition of secularism, then no argument against homosexuality will ever be sufficient.
It isn't even remotely my definition of secularism. Keep trying to deflect away from my question though since apparently you can't answer it.

However, I was participating on this thread with the assumption that the question raised in the OP was asked in good faith, ie. that it held open the possibility that a secular argument could actually be made.
Yes, that a logical, consistent argument can be made.

Consider the hypothetical situation in which you have the authority to marry any couple if you choose (leave your religious beliefs out it for now). Two couples stand before you to be married. One is a same-sex couple and the other is an opposite sex couple who know that they are infertile and can never have children together without assistance. What secular reason will you give the same-sex couple for not marrying them that will not also directly apply to and prevent you from marrying the opposite-sex couple?

No it isn't credible because it is false. Many cultures around the world have not held this view of homosexuality even in ancient times. In fact, beliefs that homosexuality was bad did not arise in many of these cultures until Christianity came along.

I have no problem with that idea. It will never happen as too many heterosexual couples want the benefits that come from state-recognized marriage.

However, the argument that marriage should be retained and expanded to include SSM can only be intended to demonstrate a state approval of homosexual relationships as equally valid to heterosexual ones.
I agree that is one of the reasons. Just like government recognition of interracial marriages demonstrates that interracial relationships are just as valid as non-interracial ones. So what?

It is morally neutral which, as you noted above, is a moral position.

There is no inconsistency in setting the boundaries of traditional marriage where they are. To a first approximation, the conditions needed for having a baby are a sexually mature man and woman.
You're absolutely right, that is what is needed for having a baby. Absolutely nothing more is needed. Neither government recognition nor societal approval are in any way needed to have a baby.

That is basically where the boundaries for marriage lie.
False. The ability to have a baby is not a boundary line to marriage.

All the relationships that fall within that category that cannot have children differ from the basic form by a matter of degree, such that no clear dividing line can be drawn.
False. A crystal clear dividing line can be drawn between those who can have children and those who cannot, once they know it. Homosexuals know this going into marriage just as some heterosexuals know it before going in.

False, as there are heterosexual couples who cannot have children and know that before getting married, the difference is a matter of degree not kind.

False, it is not a consistent position to hold. QED.
 
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Yeah, the 90% percent who disagree with you few are getting their last minute Christmas shopping done.
85% of statistics are made up on the spot.

And no, the definition of marriage hasn't changed through history. It's always been between a man and a woman, why do you think it wasn't until recently that homosexuals are even allowed to marry?
In fact many cultures allowed same-sex marriages.
 
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It's a stupid made up word used by supporters of homosexuality to throw at others.
I've asked you a couple times now. I'm still wondering what exactly you mean by "supporters of homosexuality." Orientation or sexual activity? Defending their rights or actually promoting same-sex sexual activity?
 
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There's an important difference between following your religion and trying to force everyone else to follow it.

Calling evil good is what one does when they support an institution of sin. The Bible speaks of this in a very explicit way.

There are many ways I could describe liberal Christianity- passive, requiring no sacrifice, worthless- pretty much everything that liberal atheists call for, liberal Christians conform to.

A person who really believes that the sexually immoral will not inherit the Kingdom wouldn't stand by an idea of a marriage unto what is basically damnation.
 
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A person who really believes that the sexually immoral will not inherit the Kingdom wouldn't stand by an idea of a marriage unto what is basically damnation.
So you want to outlaw remarriage, then? Or perhaps the entire institution of legal marriage, since it intentionally does not call upon God and is therefore both a farce and an insult to God, according to your religion.
 
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You're violating the board rules with your posts. One could same the exact same thing about conservatives.

Homosexuality doesn't exist in the original scripture of corinthians, so no you're in fact wrong. Not to mention based on that passage every single human on earth will not inherit the Kingdom.
 
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Homosexuality doesn't exist in the original scripture of corinthians, so no you're in fact wrong. Not to mention based on that passage every single human on earth will not inherit the Kingdom.

"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s kingdom? Do not be deceived: No sexually immoral people, idolaters, adulterers, or anyone practicing homosexuality, no thieves, greedy people, drunkards, verbally abusive people, or swindlers will inherit God’s kingdom." (1 Corinthians 6:9-10)

"Now we know that the law is good, if one uses it lawfully, understanding this, that the law is not laid down for the just but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who strike their fathers and mothers, for murderers, the sexually immoral, men who practice homosexuality, enslavers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine" (1 Timothy 1:8-10)

"Do not practice homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman. It is a detestable sin." (Leviticus 18:22)

"Likewise, Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities near them, which like them committed sexual sins and pursued homosexual activities, serve as an example of the punishment of eternal fire." (Jude 1:7)
 
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Homosexuality doesn't exist in the original scripture of corinthians, so no you're in fact wrong. Not to mention based on that passage every single human on earth will not inherit the Kingdom.

No it doesn't. This is the kind of bogus interpretation that has much of Christianity resembling the foolish facade of liberal principles. Paul stated 'men who sleep with men'. I'm not going to sit around and have the stupid discussion that doesn't mean homosexuality. Jesus Christ.

What Paul teaches is that if one commits to sin, then they cannot inherit the Kingdom. That is what the entire moral law of Christianity encompasses. If you cannot change outwardly, then inwardly you are dead.
And homosexual marriage is, fundamentally, A RITE OF MORTAL SIN. It is a sin, and one marries it. It's not rocket science, such a thing is by definition a doctrine of demons.

'Liberal Christian' is an oxymoron of moral ideology. One will notice that the great theologians, like Augustine, didn't adulterate his philosophy with liberal nonsense. He told it how it was, something that you all are completely unable to do because truth sort of takes the back burner to pretentious, new age moral twaddle.
 
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If you wanted to be consistent then, you would support laws to make Christianity the state religion and outlaw all other forms of worship. Worshipping other gods is a sin. I don't do it - I don't think people who do it are doing the right thing. But I don't think I have the right to tell them how to live their lives and stop them from doing it

There are many many sins that are legal in most nations. That's just a consequence of having religious freedom. As a Christian I try to avoid sin as much as possible, but I don't try to act as judge and jury to force everyone else to live the way I do. It's up to God to judge them, not me.

 
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Where does Paul say men who sleep with men in Greek? The word Paul used has never in classical literature referred to that. And had Paul actually wanted to refer to same-sex behavior, he already had two perfectly good Greek words to use, yet he chose neither one of them. You have no clue what you're talking about.

I disagree and I will continue to stand up against those who use the Bible and God as justification for their extreme hatred and bigotry.

Your constant insults and attitude is very unbecoming of a Christian. Calling liberal Christian an oxymoron implies liberals can't be Christian, which is a clear rule violation. Perhaps you should go away and cool off.
 
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Jesus was liberal by the standards of His time, you know. But insisting on labeling people into groups of liberal vs. conservative or other such distinctions is unnecessarily divisive and makes it seem like you are pushing a politically driven agenda rather than actually looking at things from a religious angle like you claim. I think that's a good example of projection as well.
 
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