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AHHHHH...I can't take this anymore

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My friends are now talking to my brother, and not me. They have invited him to do everything, and never invite me. They hate me. They won't even talk to me. At lunch, they sit next to my brother which forces me to sit there because they are MY friends and I would like to sit with them. They planned to do fireworks this weekend and invited my BROTHER and not me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They keep saying mean things to me and it hurts. I wish they would talk to me. But, they don't care. FINE! I guess I don't like them either....right now feels like a good time to kill myself
 

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Don't kill yourself or hurt yourself. It doesn't sound like your friends are being very good friends. Is there some reason that they can't include both you and your brother at the same time? I guess what I'm trying to say is, how well do you get along with your brother? Why is it that they would feel the need to choose between you rather than be friends with both of you?
 
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I'm betting it's not you at all-it's just that your brother is a guy. All problems feel very heavy at the time, but they all pass. And this one will, too. Have you told your friends how you feel?
 
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The only thing you can do right now is learn from my mistakes. You can't let them have power over you. I've been there and I'd keep trying whatnot to be nice to them and such. Then when they'd be nice again I'd forgive, then they'd do it over and over. But in any event, the quickest they ever went to being nice to me again was when I was hanging out with other girls and not noticing them really. But also, even if they become nice to you again, I'd seriously wonder if they'd be worth it.
 
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