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This stuff about a 10%, 3%, 1% recovery rate is laughable nonsense. I've been clean in AA and NA for over 27 years. I've never, ever, ever seen anyone not stay clean if they actually worked the program - not once.
So the success rate of both of those programs is 100%. You can't really count people who never actually got with the program. It's like if you have 100 people with bacterial infections, you give all of them antibiotics, only ten of them crack the bottle and all ten recover - would you really be so stupid as to say that the antibiotics were only 10% successful? *rolleyes*
"Constitutionally unable to be honest" means the same thing as "constitutionally unable to adopt the program of recovery", and if one is unable to do what is necessary to recover then of course one's chances of recovering are less than average. But again, that's not a failure of the program.100% success rate? What about those who are constitutionally unable to be honest? Aren't their chances less than average?
"Constitutionally unable to be honest" means the same thing as "constitutionally unable to adopt the program of recovery", and if one is unable to do what is necessary to recover then of course one's chances of recovering are less than average. But again, that's not a failure of the program.
Being unable to be honest is a pretty serious and rare psychological condition; the vast majority of the time what one sees is unwillingness rather than inability.
Sure, but that phrase isn't intended to refer to what all alcoholics have in common.
Yeah, it is an unfortunate catch-22. We have a disease that's characterized by self-deception, for which the cure involves being honest with oneself. At some point we (hopefully) become so beaten that we become willing to listen to other people and ignore the outrageous nonsense we tell ourselves.I think you are right. Although it seems many go in and out of the program based on their ability to be honest with themselves and others.
Those who do not recover are people w ho cannot or will not completely
give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves.
There are such unfortunates. They are not at fault; they seem to have been
born that way.
I agree, they are not at fault. But does that mean God fails?
Interesting that honesty is the characteristic, above all, that is tied to success or failure, not willpower or belief in Jesus or stubborness or any other thing that people attribute their successes to in this world.
Its something you get if you want it.
AA recovery rate is said to be by Bob Darrel an AA leader to be 1,2 or 3 percent. Spontaneous remission is 5 percent according to that AA worse then doing nothing for recovery. And I believe it is non CHRIST based recovery leads to failure.
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