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pgmike

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One of my friends just got married a couple of months ago and i recently found out the reason. She just had a baby just a couple months after the wedding. That is sad that she had se out of wedlock. Seems like its going on between all my christian friends lately, but im going off on a tangent. She is only 20yo and her husband is going to iraq in like two weeks. I couldnt imagine that, im still just wasting time having a good time with friends. I just ask that you all pray for her as she is a new mother and wife and undoubtedly very stressed. Thanks.
 

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pgmike said:
yeah youre misconstruing it, no prob. im also upet to find that my best freind jsut had premarital sex, its dissapointing you know. i dont want to see my friend fall like that.
Let me share a little story with you. One of my very best friends got married at the age of 19. Less than 2 years later, she was pregnant with another man's kid, and left her husband to marry that man. She's now married to that other man, and engaged to someone else (she won't file for divorce from her 2nd husband). I absolutely hate what she has done, and it breaks my heart to see how miserable and unhappy she is. But you know what? She's still my friend. It IS disappointing when people screw up, but they are the ones who have to deal with the consequences of their actions, so we who have made good choices in life need to be a strong shoulder for those who seem unable to make good choices.
 
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I will pray for these young mothers. I was married at 17 and had my son when I was 18. It is hard being that young and a child to raise. My husband and I were just kids ourselves. He was in the Marines and I was left to raise our son most of the time by myself. So anyways like I said I will pray for these young parents.
 
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really all i can do is pray for her. i cant be there for her bc she is living in NC now and im still in FL. sounds like your friend has some serious issues, she must also really stress you. you must be a good friend to stand by her like you do even tho she constantly dissapoints you.
 
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sounds like my sister, she is getting married in two weeks (the 23rd) and she is only 18. the guy is in the military and will be going to iraq next month i believe. no baby that i know of tho. thanks for praying for my friend.
 
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