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some thoughts...

Gonna try not to get stressed out this weekend... and "seek first the kingdom- righteousness, peace, joy" etc....

Well I was thinking that was something to be thankful for this yr., it's a nice addition to know what's going on w\ someone who's special. LOL however that doesn't mean I know or believe it has anything to do w\ me.
Like I think, if someone does whatever to others how does one know that that person won't do the same to you? Or, they could have the same kind of "thing" (if there is a thing) going on with whoever else. I can think of at least one person in particular...
and maybe whoever else... so I'm not going to take it upon myself to claim it for my own.
I do think they are doing that for a reason though... it's a form of going out of their way, but why though- and for whom?
So I take it for what it is and don't hope, since I don't have anything specific to go on.

Speaking of- what one does to others they can end up treating you the same way... Yes, I do see their other side and I don't like the way that if they have a problem with someone they are inclined to gripe about it to the whole world...
* warning note to self...

I feel bad but do not want to get into the middle of anything. I do think it's wrong if others had been talking about them, but on the other hand blood is blood and one shouldn't take their problems with others out on a child, meaning stick them in the middle of things- a child who has nothing to do w the situation. If that's their relatives and they wan't to see them , even if a parent doesn't like em' they should back off a bit- for the kids sake.

And unless whichever people are going to be abusive to the child I think they have a blood right to be able to visit with that relative... just my opinons...
but like I said I'm not going to say anything (I don't think) and get in the middle.
Hmm who knows maybe at some point I'll remind them that if they're Christian they need to forgive these others
...maybe I'll share that...