I have been puzzling what is it with mothers and daughters...why do daughters flip so over a mothers words...so I went to god...god's answer: Mother's think oh they (the daughter/s) never listen to them (the mother) anyway and so gives little thought to things she says, to her she is just having conversation.......to the daughter a mother's words weigh heavy, as heavy as god .......she is listening and feels the heartlessness, and feels rejection. I am going to be more mindful of how I talk to my girls....no one has ever said how powerful a mother's words are to a daughter...being a male oriented society , women know little of themselves.