• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

Posting For Ourselves Or Others?

I post for myself as well , even when I am giving advice to someone. its like I need to get it clear in my mind what I think. I want that chance to improve my communication skills. So next time I might give an even better reply. So even if the receiver of advice ignores my post, I have at least had a chance to express something that needed expressing.
What I am saying is, we help ourselves when we help others. It might be noble to think I am only helping others. But in fact we are helping ourselves too.