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Love is not boastful, it is not proud

In today's society, it is normal to look up to those who have made it to the top of the ladder, whether it be in business, the church, etc. We view these people as more important than anyone else, or at least that is what they want you to believe. However, God does not approve of this attitude.


Jesus scorned those who sat on their own pedestal wanting people to look up to them. You know these types: the walk around with their heads held high and don't notice anyone else around them, they wear fancy robes or business suits, they have important sounding titles, wear expensive jewerly, drive expensive cars, and they have choice seating at church, banquets or other special events. God does not like this at all. How can I love others if my eyes are only on me? How can I point to God if I'm pointing at me? and worse of all, how can someone see God in me if I keep fanning my tail feathers like a peacock?

1 Cor. 13:4 NIV - Love does not boast, it is not proud.

God's solution to a man-made caste system is to change directions. In a world that moves in an upward mobility, he wants us to choose the downward attitude of a servant.

Phil. 2:3 NIV - 3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves.

This is exactly what Jesus did: he flip flopped the normal flow of things. While others were moving up, he was going down.


Is not Jesus our example? He served his followers by washing their feet and he serves us by doing the same. Each morning he gifts us with beauty, each Sunday he calls us to his table, and each moment he dwells in our hearts.
Luke 13:37 - It will be good for those servants whose master finds them watching when he comes. I tell you the truth, he will dress himself to serve, will have them recline at the table and will come and wait on them.

If Jesus is so willing to honor us, can't we do the same for others? Make people a priority. Accept your part in his plan. Be quick to share the applause. And, most of all, regard others as more important than yourself. Love does: "For love does not boast, it is not proud" - (1 Cor. 13:4 NIV).


Do you think this is what God had in mind?