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In need of desperate help...

Hello, I am a man who loves God and Jesus with all my heart. I love them unconditionally forever. I was in a previous relationship with a girl that abused me emotionally and mentally with her way of being. I was in that relationship for almost three years. i was in denial and i believed she was the one and only. But one day a met a girl while still being in my previous relationship and I fell in love with her and she helped me move on from the previous relationship because i was in denial and afraid. She loves me for who I am and she says I'm perfect and we are both so very happy. She treats me right and she is so tender, respectful, sweet, loving, I just love her so much. She treats me how I want to be treated in all aspects.

Yet there is something bothering me. She is having a hard time believing in God and Jesus Christ. She currently has no faith, yet has an open mind. I have tried talking to her about it and she says she "wishes she could....and that it would be a lot easier if she could...." I don't know what this means. But I won't stop loving her because of this though. She saved me from my previous relationship...now I feel like I have to save her by showing her God. It is the last piece in this puzzle for me. She is an amazing person people. I believe that God placed me in her life to show her He does exist. I've told her that God and Jesus love you no matter what you've done and that He will always love you.

She comes from a catholic family, (like myself except I am a Christian now) and even if she would be catholic I'd be happy. All that matters to me is that she believes in God and Jesus. Yet I may see why she has a hard time believing. Her family is not very religious and have not cultivated a very good relationship with her since she was small. At the age of eight, her parents divorced. She told me by the age of nine or ten she started faltering in believing in God. Throughout the rest of her life she has experienced many hardships. Her mother was not there for her from her preteen years until a year ago. Her father was an alcoholic and her mother was not there for her.

A couple of months ago her father committed suicide. I believe all these factors contribute as to why she finds it hard to believe in God. I have always had a loving well uniformed household and my mother one of my role models in being a christian, has always been there for me and I have an amazing relationship with her. I guess since my girlfriend has been through all this....she didn't see how God can exist. Yet she hasn't told me that, but I believe that may be what she feels.

I have been depressed lately because I love her unconditionally, she has done so many good things for me and most of all she says herself she will always love me for who I am. It doesn't bother her one bit that i am a christian, in fact, she says she wishes she could believe, yet it may be hard for her because of what has occurred within her life. I feel like I am the angel God has sent in order to save His daughter, yet as a human, I lack the knowledge and experience to save her. I will go through any lengths in order to reach her. I would sacrifice any worldly thing in order to grant her the light of Jesus Christ Our lord and savior.

I am desperate....I have cried praying to God that He help me save her. And now I come to all you Christians out there that are wise enough to help me. We are both 18 years old.

Thank you