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If you had loved me, you would not have let me stew in my misery, confusion, and depression. A few lines would have cleared everything- but you did not love me.

I do not mean to say you would have necessarily said “I love you and want you.” But if you loved me as a friend, you would have said “No, I do not love you because ...” and then told me why instead of letting me drive myself to distraction thinking of all the different hypotheses.

You would not say “I will never let you go” and then say nine days later that I am what is wrong with the universe.
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