I don't understand how Tonie can still have feelings for me (as in in love with me). We have so much fun together, or at least we have this summer and so I told him that I am willing to try and work things out but it will take at least two years.
It has been two and a half months. He has given his life to Christ, gone to church religiously since May and got baptized July 4th. He even stood up for me for the first time ever (10 years we have been together) when his sister - in - law called me a psycho. And still after all that I love him but Im not in love with him. There is not "spark" no passion no anything, its dead! I feel bad because he has become everthing that I wanted in a husband and prayed for, but I still have no "in love" feelings for him anymore.
He just sent a request for me to confirm his relationship status on facebook to "in a relationship" with me and then told me I had to confirm it, I kind of feel pressured into doing it, but I did it anyways and do not feel ok with this choice. Im very confused, why don't I have the same feelings for him as he does me? Will those feelings ever return? How long should I give it? and Can I really get remarried to a person whos whole family has defriended me on face book, who calls me a psycho or a Fing yo yo etc? It will always be awkward when we go to his families house because I know how they all feel about me as they have made it quiet clear. The best part about it was that I didn't do anything to any of them, infact the last time I see the one who attacked me a few days ago, I had broughten her chocolate cookies and had a yardsale together. We laughed and talked and what not. We used to go to her house every weekend and play games .... now it would just be weired to go over there
It has been two and a half months. He has given his life to Christ, gone to church religiously since May and got baptized July 4th. He even stood up for me for the first time ever (10 years we have been together) when his sister - in - law called me a psycho. And still after all that I love him but Im not in love with him. There is not "spark" no passion no anything, its dead! I feel bad because he has become everthing that I wanted in a husband and prayed for, but I still have no "in love" feelings for him anymore.
He just sent a request for me to confirm his relationship status on facebook to "in a relationship" with me and then told me I had to confirm it, I kind of feel pressured into doing it, but I did it anyways and do not feel ok with this choice. Im very confused, why don't I have the same feelings for him as he does me? Will those feelings ever return? How long should I give it? and Can I really get remarried to a person whos whole family has defriended me on face book, who calls me a psycho or a Fing yo yo etc? It will always be awkward when we go to his families house because I know how they all feel about me as they have made it quiet clear. The best part about it was that I didn't do anything to any of them, infact the last time I see the one who attacked me a few days ago, I had broughten her chocolate cookies and had a yardsale together. We laughed and talked and what not. We used to go to her house every weekend and play games .... now it would just be weired to go over there