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Broken Friendship

My good friend was the one who introduced me to her charismatic church, to her cell leader and friends...
coz of her I attended church services regularly. I used to go to gym with her and we see each other 3 or 4 times a week.
Then one fine day, she said she wont give me a lift to the church, she wont attend the service with me...she wont do things for me... though all these while, i am the one that does things for her, be her confidante. I am grateful that for the last 2 years she has introduced me to her church as well as her friends.. This sudden reaction of hers
made me sad.. suddenly, i feel alone...It was very abrupt, that kept me wondering what i have done?
Coz my church social circle depended on her, therefore, My spiritual life was so affected that I almost gave up my faith, and I encountered a slight depresssion.
However, I overcame... by talking to friends (ironically, it was my 2 non-christain friends who stand by me), and i made a trip to Japan..
I know I should have an open palm where friendship is concerned... but somehow this is too sudden... However, I took a step of faith, God is doing a new thing in my life..
He is making a way in the desert, and streams in the wasteland..Isaiah 43:18-19
So it taught me never to hold friendship so tightly... never take things for granted...
It's painful...