JAM2b
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This is a very touchy subject, and where I think for the most part it'll remain civil enough among us who are not parents, I think those here who do have children of their own that join in is where the problem will start. Regardless of how insightful an individual may be on the subject of child rearing, if they do not actually have children of their own, their views on the subject are not usually taken well, or simply dismissed as irrelevant (based solely on the fact that they are not parents) by those who are parents.
I was a perfect mother before I had children!
Honestly, I had a ton of experience with other children because I babysat from the time I was 13, and was raising my infant sister when I was a teenager because of how neglectful our parents were. When I was 19 I went to work in daycare, had childcare and preschool teacher workshops and training, took college classes on child develop and psychology, and read books and magazines on my own in my spare time. I loved the topic of children and raising them and teaching them.
All that said, becoming a mother was a whole other ball game. Anyone who says it is the same is either lying or delusional. It is so different when it is your own children.
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