I never studied any of those folks...
But ....to be elected, it seems you need to meet a particular thought.
Then to be one of the elect partly is to believe who the Messiah is.
If you do not believe who He is How can you trust Him.
So what part of all this is conversion? [Verb]
Believing who He is or trusting
Or is to believe who He is to trust Him...God and His announcement.
I would not say God look Down to see who would believe...
But because we connected with His ongoing Spirit which is out of time, by belief in who the son is. Therefore if belief is conversion, then at conversion one is elected to comform to the image of God's son. However salvation is not mere one time event....another words you can be saved from passed sins through His death [bringing us near] in order that we are saved [live] by His life.
Through active obedience. Therefore salvation active [present possession]
Okay, I see we are missing each other a little bit here. When I say the criteria for election is
"those who love him" we have to know him, at least who he is, to love him. Knowing who God is, includes God the Son. So that means we have to know the Gospel. Why do we have to know the Gospel? Because we have it! The Jews didn't have to know the Gospel, because it was not complete yet. Jews, like anyone, have to know the Gospel today, because God has made it manifest.
But I think you need to adjust your belief to account for Romans 8:29 which is telling us very directly that God, from his perspective, is using foreknowledge in this whole election to salvation business.
By the way, it would mean the same thing if I said God uses his foreknowledge to see in advance our conversion.
Now you make another statement here that I believe you need to correct. You draw a line of distinction between being saved from past sins, and remaining saved on the ground of obedience. This idea is very wrong and I will tell you why. First I'll illustrate why it's wrong, then I'll tell you where Paul makes the point.
If I lived a perfect life, but one day for no particular reason, I went into a police station and murdered a police officer in full view of everyone there, what would happen? Well, they would arrest me and testify to the fact that I committed this murder and I would go to death row. So I'm sitting there as the years roll by while my appeals are being heard all the while I continue to live my perfect life.
You see there is no opportunity for any of the good that I have done in my life to compensate for the fact that I committed that one sin, of murder.
That is the way all guilt works. The bad news is, in God's justice, every sin will condemn you to eternal hell just as surely as murder.
If we ever get off the grace track, the one that saved us in the first place, we are doomed. Only the dead can say with assurance that they will never sin again. At this point some will say, well then you have to confess your sins and God will forgive you [1 John 1:9]. So then I'm saved at conversion until I sin, then I'm not saved again until I pray for forgiveness? That is not what John is trying to teach us in 1 John 1:9. Do you remember the parable of the Pharisee and the Tax collector [Luke 18]? The Pharisee prayed to God believing he was righteous, but the tax collector said, "God have mercy on me a sinner." He didn't go down a laundry list of his sins. Jesus said the tax collector went home justified. We need to have that same attitude. That is what 1 John 1:9 is teaching.
We become save by grace, through faith, in baptism and we remain save by grace through faith. So what about obedience? It's required, just not for salvation. Keeping that requirement is called sanctification. When we convert along with forgiveness of sins, both past and future we get power from on high. It's called the indwelling gift of the Holy Spirit. That power is what we use to keep our obligation to be obedient to all of Gods New Testament commands. God promises us that that power is enough. Not that we won't ever fail, but the failure is on us, not the Holy Spirit.
Let me recommend a book to you. It's called "Saved by Grace, the essence of Christianity," by Jack Cottrell. He taught this subject for 50 years at Cincinnati Bible Seminary. I think you would enjoy it. It's just 123 pages long.