- Jun 5, 2005
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I have been separated from my husband for 19 months now. He has his own place and his own life now. 7 months after my husband left I met someone else. We have been together for 12 months obviously living in sin. He moved into my home pretty quickly.
Ever since my husband left I have been drinking wine daily. I dont really enjoy drinking it but I drink it anyway. Everyday I tell myself I will stop drinking the wine but everyday I fail. I dont know why I am failing when before I was such a strong christian woman.
What is wrong with me? Where has all my strength gone? Its like I have given up. Am I now addicted to wine instead of God? This new man in my life has lots of issues I guess I am coping with or just putting up with. I am not even sure if he is right for me but everytime he says he is going to leave me I ask him to stay. I thought I was stronger than this.
The man I am with has slept with lots of women, taken drugs in his lifetime but I can see the obvious affects it is having on his life. He has been in prison several times for a few long stretches because of his violent nature. He has never been violent towards me but he is very paranoid. I cant have friends or go out, even being on here he doesnt like. He watches over me all the time.
The wine makes me happy but I do not like drinking it. I want to be free. I want to be free from the relationship I am in too. I want to be free from my ex husband too because he does put on me alot. He asks for my car, money and he tells me constantly how to bring up our daughter even though I care for her 24/7.
I practically live in my bedroom asking God to help me but there seems to be too many obstacles in the way as mentioned above for me to even notice God is there.
What am I to do. I dont feel strong enough to change any of the above no matter how hard I try or think.
I must be an alcoholic. I dont drink until around 4pm or later but I am drinking over a bottle a day every day.
Ever since my husband left I have been drinking wine daily. I dont really enjoy drinking it but I drink it anyway. Everyday I tell myself I will stop drinking the wine but everyday I fail. I dont know why I am failing when before I was such a strong christian woman.
What is wrong with me? Where has all my strength gone? Its like I have given up. Am I now addicted to wine instead of God? This new man in my life has lots of issues I guess I am coping with or just putting up with. I am not even sure if he is right for me but everytime he says he is going to leave me I ask him to stay. I thought I was stronger than this.
The man I am with has slept with lots of women, taken drugs in his lifetime but I can see the obvious affects it is having on his life. He has been in prison several times for a few long stretches because of his violent nature. He has never been violent towards me but he is very paranoid. I cant have friends or go out, even being on here he doesnt like. He watches over me all the time.
The wine makes me happy but I do not like drinking it. I want to be free. I want to be free from the relationship I am in too. I want to be free from my ex husband too because he does put on me alot. He asks for my car, money and he tells me constantly how to bring up our daughter even though I care for her 24/7.
I practically live in my bedroom asking God to help me but there seems to be too many obstacles in the way as mentioned above for me to even notice God is there.
What am I to do. I dont feel strong enough to change any of the above no matter how hard I try or think.
I must be an alcoholic. I dont drink until around 4pm or later but I am drinking over a bottle a day every day.