Dear David Jerome. The hardest part for us is, to be " Reborn," to leave our selfishness behind, and change into loving children/sons and daughters of our Heavenly Father. Jesus told us in Matthew, chapter 22, verses 35-40, " The first and great Commandment is: Love God with all thy heart, with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. The second is like it: Love thy neighbour as thyself. On these two Commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets. Everything we say or do, or advocate or would ask for, has to be done from selfless love, freely given and no conditions asked. Jesus will give us His Love and Joy, and the Holy Spirit will give us His Love and Joy, also. Jesus told us to: " Ask and ye will receive," and then we thank God and share all Love and Joy with our neighbour.
God will see our sincere efforts, and God will bless us, AND God will know that we love Him. HOW? Because we are following God`s Commandments to love and care. Love is a Christian`s great weapon, and love will conquer all, and change all into "better and acceptable". To love might take longer to win all, but love will turn us into conquerors, worthy followers of our Saviour and Leader Jesus Christ.
Love changes not only things and occasions, love also changes men and women, and people will treat us the same, as they are treated by us, and there is no better way to show an imperfect world, how much better life with God, can be lived, and filled with Love and Joy. I say this with love, David. Greetings from Emmy, sister in Christ. P.S. The hardest part is: to make an unbelieving world see, the many wonderful benefits they are missing.