The use of the word "haunting" gave me a chuckle. I couldn't help but picture you as some kind of spectral presence, drifting through the extensive web of PoF profiles and sending eerie messages to people. I realize that's not the case, but the mental image was amusing.
Don't dismiss women outside your church. You can still encounter fellow Christians in your everyday, outside-the-church-building activities, like hobbies, social gatherings, etc. My church is packed with adults of all ages, but they're all families, not singles, so I feel your frustration. There are also Christian dating sites and apps. Of course, use discernment no matter where you encounter someone, as not everything with the label "Christian" is going to have honest, virtuous people on it.
Apparently, we haven't had our fill yet of the woes of dating. It's actually very interesting to see what Christians want to talk about. You'd think we'd have better conversations in here and actually discuss topics of some importance, but we can't get past the big three: men's height, women's age, and financial inequality. It's like the trinity in Singles lol.
I'm considering starting my own parody threads just for a laugh. It's become so predictable.
People try to be active on this site as possible and love debating. Just my guess?
The laugh rating was for the "singles trinity" but yes, I agree! What gets me is people absolutely REFUSE to let go of their preconceived ideas of why they're single. As if there's no woman on the planet who has ever dating a short guy lol. And so on.Apparently, we haven't had our fill yet of the woes of dating. It's actually very interesting to see what Christians want to talk about. You'd think we'd have better conversations in here and actually discuss topics of some importance, but we can't get past the big three: men's height, women's age, and financial inequality. It's like the trinity in Singles lol.
A far better use of our time would be to encourage each other to be better Christians while we are all single and to help others who do struggle with loneliness by providing fellowship and friendship. But I'm sure by tomorrow, there will be a whole new crop of riveting and stimulating discussions about why men and women hate each other lol. Each thread teaches me something new and ridiculous that I hadn't considered before
I believe in climate change, what pollution does to our planet, I believe in COVID/restrictions/masks/shots, marijuana laws.
There's being active and there's spending time searching through old threads trying to find ones to comment on. That's behaviour that I don't understand as it would have been necessary to go some way back to get to some of those threads.
I was feeling very sarcastic, haha.
There is nothing new under the sun. That which was complained about last month will be complained about next month lol
