Would I be crazy for considering going back to him, staying in the marriage and helping my husband raise this baby?
I initiated the separation because of some issues that he would not address, mostly dealing with his family, which was strongly interfering with us. Four months into our separation, he got another woman pregnant by accident. But, 6 months into the separation (before I knew about the baby), I came to him asking if we could talk about working on things, said that I was sorry for leaving and that I didn't want to be divorced. Granted, he wanted to work on things in the beginning.
He has been trying to make it work with the baby's mother. However, she is very volatile and has a questionable past. He has expressed many times that they can't get along, and now it's reached a point that they will more than likely split up before the baby comes.
If he'll have me, should I even consider going back and working on our marriage, and being a stable parent to this baby? I feel very strongly called to do this, and that it may be a very important thing for me to do. I still love my husband and we are both believers who were tempted and made poor choices.
I initiated the separation because of some issues that he would not address, mostly dealing with his family, which was strongly interfering with us. Four months into our separation, he got another woman pregnant by accident. But, 6 months into the separation (before I knew about the baby), I came to him asking if we could talk about working on things, said that I was sorry for leaving and that I didn't want to be divorced. Granted, he wanted to work on things in the beginning.
He has been trying to make it work with the baby's mother. However, she is very volatile and has a questionable past. He has expressed many times that they can't get along, and now it's reached a point that they will more than likely split up before the baby comes.
If he'll have me, should I even consider going back and working on our marriage, and being a stable parent to this baby? I feel very strongly called to do this, and that it may be a very important thing for me to do. I still love my husband and we are both believers who were tempted and made poor choices.
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