- Dec 21, 2004
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update from RuSabLePheonix and me ( the same person).
where do I start?
My virgin highschool fundy- moderate-conservative wife of 10-15 years all of the sudden turned to the Dark Side, has abandoned my daughter (legaly giving up parental rights tomarrow) ran off with a guy ( sex offender!) who dumped her for destroying our family, and is now out sleeping around with all sorts guys(or girls) at the bars ( I have acsess to her voice mail and cell phone records).
She will not even speak to her closest friends and family who are all VERY UPSET.
Why did this happen?
First off, for the first time in our marraige she is making more $$$ than me and spending all of her work-time with slick well dressed salesmen.
So all of the sudden I am the loser ( even though I made $20,000 last year as a self employed) accourding to her salemen buddies.
And she is living the wild teenage years she never had.
The last two weeks..the worst time of my entire existence, yet I see the light at the end of the tunnel.
I am determined to become the betterperson thru this and use this opprtunity to demonstrate and manifest the single concept I hold Sacred: Unconditional Love. I am positive my wife and I will remain good friends after all this shiit is done and over with, although I highly doubt we will ever get back together. I joined a Unitarian- Universalist church and was overjoyed to find Athiests/ agnostics there ( as well as liberal Christians, buddhists, wiccans, pagans and a buttload of gay couples). My first time there I talked to a math proff. and two doctors for about 3 hours and we hit it off like we have been friends for years, talking about the exact same things that are discused in Apologtics non stop..... the value of critical thinking and so forth.
Very cool.. I am starting to see the positive in this situation.
Even though this situation has been so terribly difficult and emotional beyond description, it is becoming positive, and plus I have my first date in 15 years with a really hot educated agnostic asian girl this week!
where do I start?
My virgin highschool fundy- moderate-conservative wife of 10-15 years all of the sudden turned to the Dark Side, has abandoned my daughter (legaly giving up parental rights tomarrow) ran off with a guy ( sex offender!) who dumped her for destroying our family, and is now out sleeping around with all sorts guys(or girls) at the bars ( I have acsess to her voice mail and cell phone records).
She will not even speak to her closest friends and family who are all VERY UPSET.
Why did this happen?
First off, for the first time in our marraige she is making more $$$ than me and spending all of her work-time with slick well dressed salesmen.
So all of the sudden I am the loser ( even though I made $20,000 last year as a self employed) accourding to her salemen buddies.
And she is living the wild teenage years she never had.
The last two weeks..the worst time of my entire existence, yet I see the light at the end of the tunnel.
I am determined to become the betterperson thru this and use this opprtunity to demonstrate and manifest the single concept I hold Sacred: Unconditional Love. I am positive my wife and I will remain good friends after all this shiit is done and over with, although I highly doubt we will ever get back together. I joined a Unitarian- Universalist church and was overjoyed to find Athiests/ agnostics there ( as well as liberal Christians, buddhists, wiccans, pagans and a buttload of gay couples). My first time there I talked to a math proff. and two doctors for about 3 hours and we hit it off like we have been friends for years, talking about the exact same things that are discused in Apologtics non stop..... the value of critical thinking and so forth.
Very cool.. I am starting to see the positive in this situation.
Even though this situation has been so terribly difficult and emotional beyond description, it is becoming positive, and plus I have my first date in 15 years with a really hot educated agnostic asian girl this week!