Hi,
I am currently struggling in life and have lost my faith. I am angry with God as I feel utterly abandoned by him.
I can't understand why he has allowed me to have to deal with the amount of have.
I was abused as a child, raped when I was 20 by a Christian man , physically, sexually and emotionally abused by my husband for 16 years.
I got divorced 4 years ago and now am a single mum, I work over fill time hours to support my children , I am financially struggling , in debt. To secure our future I am studying to secure a promotion which has exceeded my work load.
I have mental health problem, I had 2 nervous breakdowns in the last 4 years, where I received intensive mental health support.
I'm lonely, completely alone and have limited family support.
I used to have a very strong faith, I used to hang on to bible passages that God would not allow more things to happen to me than I could deal with or that he would keep me safe. But he didn't. He watched whilst I was abused.
The church I attended encouraged me to stay with my abusive husband and to be a godly wife to him. Therefore when the domestic violence group got involved in my case and helped me to leave. I became an embarrassment to the church and I had to leave .
I am struggling to understand why my rapist is financially prospering when I am beyond struggling. I have an astronomical amount of problems to sort in my house and Christmas is fast approaching. I am already crying about Christmas as I can't see how I can participate in it.
I used to pray ferverentjy , I praised God despite my circumstances. But I have been met by silence when I really needed the loving arms of my daddy around me.
I have thought about going to another church but it's too painful to attend. I have a few Christian friends on social media and I see pictures of their many holidays and new kitchens and lovely family activities with their husbands and I wonder why did God not want that for me ?
Did I not deserve a loving husband, do I deserves a damp filled house, no holiday, no companionship, no cuddles.
My friends and moan when their husbands go away for the night and they left with all the house stuff. But that is the reality of my life all the time.
I'm sorry for moaning ... thanks for reading xxx
I am currently struggling in life and have lost my faith. I am angry with God as I feel utterly abandoned by him.
I can't understand why he has allowed me to have to deal with the amount of have.
I was abused as a child, raped when I was 20 by a Christian man , physically, sexually and emotionally abused by my husband for 16 years.
I got divorced 4 years ago and now am a single mum, I work over fill time hours to support my children , I am financially struggling , in debt. To secure our future I am studying to secure a promotion which has exceeded my work load.
I have mental health problem, I had 2 nervous breakdowns in the last 4 years, where I received intensive mental health support.
I'm lonely, completely alone and have limited family support.
I used to have a very strong faith, I used to hang on to bible passages that God would not allow more things to happen to me than I could deal with or that he would keep me safe. But he didn't. He watched whilst I was abused.
The church I attended encouraged me to stay with my abusive husband and to be a godly wife to him. Therefore when the domestic violence group got involved in my case and helped me to leave. I became an embarrassment to the church and I had to leave .
I am struggling to understand why my rapist is financially prospering when I am beyond struggling. I have an astronomical amount of problems to sort in my house and Christmas is fast approaching. I am already crying about Christmas as I can't see how I can participate in it.
I used to pray ferverentjy , I praised God despite my circumstances. But I have been met by silence when I really needed the loving arms of my daddy around me.
I have thought about going to another church but it's too painful to attend. I have a few Christian friends on social media and I see pictures of their many holidays and new kitchens and lovely family activities with their husbands and I wonder why did God not want that for me ?
Did I not deserve a loving husband, do I deserves a damp filled house, no holiday, no companionship, no cuddles.
My friends and moan when their husbands go away for the night and they left with all the house stuff. But that is the reality of my life all the time.
I'm sorry for moaning ... thanks for reading xxx