JC4uNME,
I sincerly hope that you are reaching out to someone for some help. I hope and pray that God is giving you the strength to do that. There has been several people in this thread showing a lot of love to you. I just hope you can receive it.
Anxiety, in it's various forms, and depression will take more from you than you have wanted to give up. It has stolen more from me that I think I can ever get back. It will affect you in your career, because it won't allow you to push forward, and take those better oppournties, because you can't talk to the right people, and many times you are just afraid to make a change. It will destroy personal relationships. It took one from me, the girl I was seeing just thought I was to quiet. She said it just felt awkard in person. I would talk and talk on the computer when her, but in person I would just clam up. Why? she was really attractive, and I was always afraid of saying the wrong thing or looking stupid. So, I lost.
It will take friendships. Unless people understand what you are going through. How? People get tired of being around you if you are always down and complaining about something. Or if one minute your in a good mood, and the next your not (mood swings). With anxiety and depression it's hard to make good quality relationships with people, so you get hurt alot. Eventually you build up emotional walls, and won't let anyone near you. Even though your really dying to let people close to you, your afraid to. So, you end up pushing people away from you, more than likely it's the ones that you really need.
It will take it's toll on you physically. Overactive heart rate, headaches, just being tired all the time.
Maybe, I've got a little to personal here. I am hoping that you related to some of things that I have said. I just want you to realize that your not alone. Maybe, I've make you feel better about yourself. Perhaps your saying "Gee I don't have anywhere near those problems"
Don't get some help, because we want you to. Do it for yourself, because to you that is who matters.
If there is one thing I hate. It's anxiety and depression. Those are a pairs of theives who have stolen from me, and I just don't to see anyone else being victimized by them. That's why I keep trying to help you JC.