- Aug 4, 2013
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Dear Brothers and Sisters:
Well, glory to God, tomorrow will be my chrismation anniversary.
However . . .
I am still struggling with a really BAD marriage. I have been hanging in there, trying to see that this marriage is for the purpose of our Lord teaching me things like patience and loving those who despitefully use me. What is happening is that I keep losing my temper and saying some awful stuff under my breath when she annoys (this is a mild adjective for it) the snot out of me.
After I have done such stuff, I find myself wondering if I should even bother with Morning Prayers, Evening Prayers, etc., other than doing the Canon of Repentance and begging God to continue to forgive my sorry self. Truth be told, I despise this woman, and if it weren't for the sense that this marriage is A.) a penance for my first marriage, in which "I" was the selfish and despicable lout, and B.) a school of patience and love from God, I would have been long gone a long time ago.
Anyway, why should I even bother with prayer if God does not hear the prayers of such wicked persons?
AND
Your prayers for my spiritual growth and the Holy Spirit to in some way heal me of this anger and bad responses I have will be greatly appreciated.
Seeing my own sins so clearly really disabuses me of any thought that I am a good Christian and makes me struggle with the idea of Christ loving me in such a condition.
Well, glory to God, tomorrow will be my chrismation anniversary.
However . . .
I am still struggling with a really BAD marriage. I have been hanging in there, trying to see that this marriage is for the purpose of our Lord teaching me things like patience and loving those who despitefully use me. What is happening is that I keep losing my temper and saying some awful stuff under my breath when she annoys (this is a mild adjective for it) the snot out of me.
After I have done such stuff, I find myself wondering if I should even bother with Morning Prayers, Evening Prayers, etc., other than doing the Canon of Repentance and begging God to continue to forgive my sorry self. Truth be told, I despise this woman, and if it weren't for the sense that this marriage is A.) a penance for my first marriage, in which "I" was the selfish and despicable lout, and B.) a school of patience and love from God, I would have been long gone a long time ago.
Anyway, why should I even bother with prayer if God does not hear the prayers of such wicked persons?
AND
Your prayers for my spiritual growth and the Holy Spirit to in some way heal me of this anger and bad responses I have will be greatly appreciated.
Seeing my own sins so clearly really disabuses me of any thought that I am a good Christian and makes me struggle with the idea of Christ loving me in such a condition.