I appreciate your questions Marvin. I can only give you what the Bible says.
2 Timothy 2:21
19 Nevertheless the solid foundation of God stands, having this seal: “The Lord knows those who are His,” and, “Let everyone who names the name of Christ depart from iniquity.”
20 But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and silver, but also of wood and clay, some for honor and some for dishonor.
21 Therefore if anyone cleanses himself from the latter, he will be a vessel for honor, sanctified and useful for the Master, prepared for every good work.
Therefore, if anyone cleanses himself from these things, he will be a vessel for honor, sanctified, useful to the Master, prepared for every good work.
I guess it depends upon our desire to cleanse ourself and depart from iniquity. Once we have cleansed ourselves, then we will be a vessel for honor,
we will then be sanctified, and we will then be useful to the Master, prepared for every good work.
1 Thessalonians 4
3 For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you should abstain from sexual immorality;
4 that each of you should know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor,
5 not in passion of lust, like the Gentiles who do not know God;
Paul says the will of God, and our sanctification is for us to abstain from sexual immorality in these verses. Then he says,
each of us should know how to possess our own vessel in sanctification and honor, and not in passion of lust. I would then say each of us should know 'how successful' we should be.
I would say a definite yes to searching our heart to see what lies within. If we do not search our heart and cast away the evil, God says he will search our heart. One may refrain from searching his heart in this life, but God will definitely search our hearts to expose the evil within.
What would hurt you the most - to have one misrepresent your beliefs or have one commit sexual immorality with a loved one of yours?
The cut off date would have to be death. We have our life on this earth to examine ourselves, to ask the Lord concerning any evil within, and seeking His guidance and help to remove any evil within. After death, this is not possible.
I will have to quote Jesus here. In
Matthew 11:28, Jesus said, "
Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." A person is given to Christ when he comes to Him.
Again, I will have give you Paul's words concerning inappropriate contentography (sexual immorality). He said each of us SHOULD know how to possess our own vessel in sanctification. If this is what a person has learned from the Bible, I would say it's okay. However, we are told the opposite, that is, to abstain from sexual immorality. I wonder, why would a person want to test the Lord and look at inappropriate contentography. A person who continually looks at inappropriate contentography is taking delight in the evil in his heart, while shaking his fist at God and defying His word.
However, the Lord is merciful. We can't wear out His patience with us.
Ephesians 1
13 In Him you also trusted, after you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation; in whom also, having believed, you were sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise,
14 who is the guarantee of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, to the praise of His glory.
This comes after hearing the word of truth and believed it. However, does a person believe really believe His word if he continually commits sin against God and the Spirit? If the word of truth says to abstain from sexual immorality, when is it a person believes this? Would you say a person believes this if he continues in sexual immorality?
We have read this in
2 Timothy 2:19 -
Nevertheless the solid foundation of God stands, having this seal: “The Lord knows those who are His,” and, “Let everyone who names the name of Christ depart from iniquity.”
If you were to visit heaven now, would you see people sitting next to Christ enjoying inappropriate contentography? Would you see them lusting after each other? Would you hear them expelling foul and grotesque sexual language?
I believe you are serious Marvin. And I am certainly serious myself.
Jesus said this in
John 5:24 -
Most assuredly, I say to you, he who hears My word and believes in Him who sent Me has everlasting life, and shall not come into judgment, but has passed from death into life.
One must hear His word and believe in Him Who sent Jesus. Believing is not just assent, but actually acting upon His word and living it daily.
We also have this in
1 John 3:14 -
We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love the brethren. He who does not love his brother abides in death.