I have been married for five years this summer. I'm 27 next month and my husband is 29. We are staying with in laws right now my husband just yesterday got a part time job as security but for the past year and two months has been without a full time job. I'm working one full time job and a part time job. We have no kids, his last job he was there 8 months then quit. Before that 6 months at a dealership then quit the longest job he has had was 1 year and 6 months. Am I wrong for longing for security, stable, reliable. When we dated he wanted kids now he doesn't. I am seriously considering moving out on my own and separating. Im in WI right now Maybe even moving back to CA with my parents and getting my masters. Right now I don't have a husband it feels like I live with a teenager. I know no man is perfect but why cant he at least keep a job. Can someone help me?