Fish and Bread
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F&B, your comments are over the top and inappropriate. The article did not imply what you said it does.
Here are some quotes from the article:
Men need a challenge, a goal, perhaps an adventure-in primitive terms, a hunt. Western Christianity has lost the ascetic, that is, the athletic, aspect of Christian life. This was the purpose of monasticism, which arose in the East largely as a men's movement.
Men need a challenge? And a goal? In primitive terms, a hunt? The article didn't even bother to say "most". We all secretly wish we were running around in the forest killing things, is what I get from that. It's insulting. And it's insulting to women, too, because it implies they don't like challenges or goals. And, in any event, it defacto includes all members of the male gender and throws us into one category. Personally, that turns me off more than the "feminization" of church, whatever that means -- I'm assuming something else based on a stereotype..
Women entered monastic life as well, and our ancient hymns still speak of women martyrs as showing 'manly courage.'"
So women have to become like men to show courage? Learn something new every day.
"Christ in Orthodoxy is a militant, butt-kicking Jesus who takes Hell captive. Orthodox Jesus came to cast fire on the earth. (Males can relate to butt-kicking and fire-casting.)
Males can relate to butt-kicking and fire-casting?
After several years in Orthodoxy, one man found returning to a Protestant church for their service of traditional Christmas carols "shocking, even appalling." Compared to the Orthodox hymns of Christ's Nativity, " 'The little Lord Jesus asleep on the hay'
Yeah, because if there's one thing men hate, it's infants asleep on hay.
The fact that you must 'struggle' during worship by standing up throughout long services is itself a challenge men are willing to take up.
Personally, I'm a man, and I find the standing part the thing I like least about Eastern Orthodoxy, in theory. It's probably actually the reason I've never been to a Divine Liturgy. Granted, I have health problems, so I know for a fact I'd have to sit, and then I'd stand out and I hate to stand out in a large crowd, since I am uncomfortable in crowds to begin with. But even when I was healthier, I don't think I'd have said something like "Yeah! I get to stand for three hours! Maybe after this I can hit a deer with a rock and burn something to the ground!", which apparently should have been my reaction if this article were accurate. I'm not criticizing the Eastern Orthodox custom in this matter, I am just taking issue with the idea that I must love the idea because I am a man and I must like "challenges" and "athletism", in every conceivable context.
Back to the more recent poster's comments:
Even when I was an evangelical, I was acutely aware of how feminized the church was and that was why men were scarce. I didn't know there was anything else out there at the time, though. Orthodoxy appeals to men, bc as my priest said in the article, it's balanced.
I agree sometimes prayers at some churches can be a little sappy or over the top. But that doesn't mean the solution is to introduce "manly" things. How about we just say the liturgies as they've been handed down? That's one thing I love about Eastern Orthodoxy, they *don't* resort to stupid gimmicks to appeal to men or women or anyone, really. They just do what they've done, for the most part. An article convincing me that they're super-manly, though, strikes me something like when I read an article from Protestants about how "hip" and "groovy" Jesus is. It's a turn-off.
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