i can see myself being shot for this, but here goes anyways.
YES I do think so. not as in the act. you're not gonna have urges for the rest of your life and you might stop cutting today and never ever ever SI again, but to me, that is still part of you.
a person cannot hope to make a success of life if he or she doesn't know where they come from. you must know what made you and know what hurdles you have overcome. it provides strength and motivation for further hurdles.
think of it like this - an alcoholic is always an alcoholic. they might stop drinking, but they still refer to themselves as alcoholics, because it is part of them. as humans, we must accept that there are good and bad parts to us. you cannot be all good, because
that defies the definition of being human.
i am not saying that being a cutter (or alcoholic or drug addict etc) is the epitome of what you are - quite the contrary, it is but one facet of your personality - a part that can and may and
should become less and less prominent in you life. However, it is still part of you.
before tuesday, i hadn't cut in more than three months. quite some time ago my fave teacher and i had a real heart to heart... and i told her i'm a cutter. "i haven't cut in such a long time, but i am" she told me she knew. she'd always known. weird. but anyways.
what i'm saying is basically, mmmmh, how do i say this? ok, my one friend (26yrs old) is at a stage where she can read old journal entries, listen to "trip" songs and all these things - live a pretty normal life with its up and downs etc - and not feel the urge to cut. but she still calls herself a cutter.
look,
it's just my opinion and it works for me. it helps. it's the same way that it helps certain people to keep counts of days since last SI'ing and others feel it brings them down. just my opinion
didn't mean to confuse anyone.
God bless
Keep strong
Love always