Why would you assume that I don't know anyone or have never seen or empathised with someone that has suffered divorce or seperation as a result of adultery? I have!
Jesus teaches us to forgive not just once, not even twice but 70x7! But He is a realistic God and a God of compassion and He knows that adultery in a league of it's own when it comes to sin by man to man.
Divorce for adultery shouldn't necessarily be our first solution, but our last option! But when the person who commits adultery again and again does not seek God to forgive and strengthen them so they don't return to repeat the offence
then I think it's right that the person divorce. Because they have no remorse and no desire to seek forgiveness or to be forgiven.
My concern is that here we give advice based on our experiences and our knowledge and generally act like Christian counsellors. I've given advice and also taken. I'm not a fount of all knowledge, but I do believe we have to be careful when we tell people to walk away from a relationship when the person is asking for forgiveness and the other person is considering offering it.
I noted the situation seemed suspicious, it's the same woman on at least 2 seperate occasions after all.
I would just hope we could all be a little more careful.
My 2 pennies worth. And.. I could be totally wrong afterall.
I'm new here and the last thing I want to do is create waves, I just wanted to have an opinion.
..plans her escape route