Merlin Athrawes
Seijin
I understand. I wouldn't recommend you throw in the towel yet, particularly if there is truly love there as you've said; but unfortunately your situation looks less and less salvageable the more I hear about it, and for that I'm truly sorry. As I said, I had a girlfriend similar to that once, and it's no fun at all. Your gf seems quite rigidly and unthinkingly attached to her system, and at best it'll take a good amount of time before she loosens herself from its grip. If she ever does. Only you can decide how much time you can invest towards that end. If you guys do break up, after whatever time you need to recover you might want to go to a local classifieds or OKCupid or somesuch and put in for a liberal single Christian female in whatever age range you feel comfortable with. Be prepared to drive at least 1 hour and possibly much like you're doing with your current gf. I wish I could tell you more, or indeed feel assured that what I am telling you is in fact helpful. I'm married but I remember what it was like to be single, and when you really want someone to love it's no fun.
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