Ok. I did a bit of research. Please realize that I live on the opposite coast so my speculations are based soley on my experience and what I've read on the parish websites so I could be way off.
The Paulists which is the order of priests that are running that Newman Hall are not known for their orthodoxy. That is not to say that some Paulists wouldn't be "conservative" but overall they tend to desire a more "American Church". Overall there weren't a lot of glaring red flags. The LGBT meeting was difficult to discern because it's written in such a way that it could actually be calling them to a more Christian lifestyle but I also read the queer.berkeley site and that clearly showed that Newman Hall was providing a safe haven for discussion and not really trying to bring them to a Catholic perspective. I also noticed an absence of devotional practices.
Interestingly enough it appears that your diocese has a new bishop who is considered "conservative" and appears to be causing a bit of a ruckus in the "liberal" community.
I looked at some other parish sites for your city and here's my two cents on those.
St. Ambrose This parish is tied to the Salesian Institute and run by the order of Salesians of Don Bosco priests. Salesians usually do great ministry. They are very outreach oriented especially toward youth. I didn't have any major red flags when looking at their site. They do have a charismatic meeting weekly which may or may not bother you. They also have opportunities for rosary and adoration.
St. Joseph the Worker Church This appears to be a diocesan priest run church. They have a ton of Masses which is nice. I love it when I see a daily Mass on Saturday. They didn't seem to have a lot of devotional practices or events. I did notice that they have a bible study. It appears that they have a strong hispanic presence and there is an international eastern Catholic rite that occurs there periodically. No major red flags but hard to tell based on their site.
St. Mary Magdelan Parish This parish is run by the Dominican order. They tend to be mostly traditional but I have run into a few that were more liberal. Personally I like the Dominicans. They are known as the Order of Preachers hence the O.P after their names. This parish has a plethora of Masses and First Friday adoration. They also pray the liturgy of the hours daily which is pretty neat. I didn't see any red flags. Pretty normal ministries such as St. Vincent de Paul Society which is outreach to the poor. This parish actually has a meeting weekly called Why Do Catholics...? It seems to be separate from the normal initiation classes and is intended to help non-Catholics and Catholics understand why Catholics do what we so. This might be an interesting group for you to try out.
It actually looks like you have some decent options in the area. I would highly recommend that you attend a Mass or two at each and definitely speak to the priest there about the parish and your attendance. That will give you a better feel for the parish and whether it's a place you'd like to frequent.
As the Catholic Church's Mass is so different from most protestant services, please don't hesitate to ask questions around here on things you don't understand that we do. There is usually a simple explanation and most folks here are pretty friendly.