Here is the full story, if you've got some time to kill
http://www.christianforums.com/t7354112/
The short of it is, my wife is leaving me for another guy. She says she never really loved me, and looking back on the last 10 years I have no doubt about it. She says she always felt guilty that she didn't love me the way that I loved her and that she has the right to find someone she can love that way, and that she's found that in this other guy. Furthermore, she is no longer a believer. She says now she believes that God accepts anyone no matter what they do (which is convenient for her).
So anyway, I still love her and she's indifferent to me. I'm depressed and lonely and she's happy and loving life. Any attempt to wake her up to what she is doing and her spiritual need for Christ results in anger and insults. I pray constantly that God will break through to her, but honestly, what will He do if she just refuses to listen? Is there any hope? I know I'm going to hear "Just pick yourself up and move on," and "She's not worth it," and "quit being so pathetic and weak and just get over her," from some people, but what I'd really like to hear is something that gives me hope. I can't imagine that I will ever stop loving her, and as we have 4 kids I'm always going to be in her life, so am I doomed to spend my life loving someone who doesn't care? This is the path of my thoughts after the sun goes down every night.
http://www.christianforums.com/t7354112/
The short of it is, my wife is leaving me for another guy. She says she never really loved me, and looking back on the last 10 years I have no doubt about it. She says she always felt guilty that she didn't love me the way that I loved her and that she has the right to find someone she can love that way, and that she's found that in this other guy. Furthermore, she is no longer a believer. She says now she believes that God accepts anyone no matter what they do (which is convenient for her).
So anyway, I still love her and she's indifferent to me. I'm depressed and lonely and she's happy and loving life. Any attempt to wake her up to what she is doing and her spiritual need for Christ results in anger and insults. I pray constantly that God will break through to her, but honestly, what will He do if she just refuses to listen? Is there any hope? I know I'm going to hear "Just pick yourself up and move on," and "She's not worth it," and "quit being so pathetic and weak and just get over her," from some people, but what I'd really like to hear is something that gives me hope. I can't imagine that I will ever stop loving her, and as we have 4 kids I'm always going to be in her life, so am I doomed to spend my life loving someone who doesn't care? This is the path of my thoughts after the sun goes down every night.