MY apologies!

[cathoaholicliz]

Hello everyone.

I am sorry if I have ruffled any feathers or acted like a pretty foul or mean person.

I thought about it after going to bed last night and I do apologize.

I will not bore you all with how I am doing or why I am sometimes not a nice person.

I will just try harder.



So sorry if I have been rude or mean or other words which you cannot say on a Christian forum. That's all.

 

[MikeK]

No worries, sis! I haven't noticed you being too teriblt abrassive, but even if you had, it's cool All you can do is your humble best, and that you appologised, needed or not, says a lot about your character.

 

[WarriorAngel]

I didnt see anything.
Peace

 

[cathoaholicliz]

No worries, sis! I haven't noticed you being too teriblt abrassive, but even if you had, it's cool All you can do is your humble best, and that you appologised, needed or not, says a lot about your character.

I can be.

And I believe I was mean to Needing_Grace. Poor guy.

 

[Tallguy88]

I can be.

And I believe I was mean to Needing_Grace. Poor guy.

I believe your post to needing was very harsh. But we all have bad times and it boils over to our social lives sometimes. I've been guilty of losing it with posters on here before.

But I'm glad to have you around here. If I've been snappy with you, I apologize.

 

[cathoaholicliz]

I need a social life.

Things are difficult in my life right now. I have a special needs sone and a special needs brother too boot. Both of which are my responsibility right now. My brother is less so since he's 19.

But he's a pain! And mind you NO EXCUSE for my behaviors. Then last night when I was horrible to people it was one of the days when the pot was boiling over. I'm very very sorry to everyone in the community, really.

But I thought I had been snarky to others besides Needing_Grace. And not just snarky down right whats the word? Just jerky!!

Last night before I was mean to anyone I had just literally had such a bad time here that I screamed without opening my mouth so hard that I blinded myself. I caused myself to have chest pain and back pain simultaneously and then shoulder twitches. It was horrible how angry I was last night because of stuff stressing me out. MY special needs brother, God love and bless him, can be a pain and a jerk and he will do it TO make you mad. He's manipulative and not endearing like other special people. He's a lot of work. My 5 year old who has no special needs that we know of is a lot of work. My 2 year old who has a lot of special needs is a lot of work and my almost 1 year old is a lot of work.

And yesterday was A LOT of hassle.

But that's nobody's fault in here at all and I apologize and if I ever act like a horrible woman again I'd like someone to rep me and let me know. I sure will pray on it as well.

 

[WarriorAngel]

It happens.

I am so 'blah' right now... mellow mood i guess.

 

[cathoaholicliz]

I'm having a heart racing moment right now. Where I am anticipating something to fall to crud.

 

[Fantine]

It sounds like you are going through some big changes and some stress in your life right now.

And as Catholics, it's up to us to understand what you're going through and cut you a little slack.

I am sure Needing_Grace appreciates your apology, and knows that the God of second chances wants followers of second chances, too.

 

[cathoaholicliz]

The intensity of the anxiety I have had since moving here varies. But nights like last night its like there's a pot boiling in my stomach and one more thing just one more thing and I'll burst!

Yep I am in therapy. But I will try to ignore heated topics and only read edifying ones for now.

 

[dennis1777]

Because of the knowledge of my sinful past I cannot judge I can only hope you heal and things get better concerning your stressors.

 

[cathoaholicliz]

I really need the Church, most especially the sacrament of confession. I think the boiling points, anger and poor reservation on my part would be buried somewhat if I had the sacraments again. ((SIGH))

I need to work and pray about my lack of humility.

 

[Michie]

We all have our moments. Very nice of you to apologize though. Most of us have been there one time or another.

Prayers for you & yours.

 

[cathoaholicliz]

Thanks Michie.

 

[TheOtherHockeyMom]

Very cool of you to start this thread. I hope your situation improves and I'll be sending prayers your way.

 

[Anhelyna]

Liz - you can always shout and scream in Reilly's - when you want peace and quiet you can have it there .

It's our haven from the stresses of the world

 

[Root of Jesse]

I need a social life.

Things are difficult in my life right now. I have a special needs sone and a special needs brother too boot. Both of which are my responsibility right now. My brother is less so since he's 19.

But he's a pain! And mind you NO EXCUSE for my behaviors. Then last night when I was horrible to people it was one of the days when the pot was boiling over. I'm very very sorry to everyone in the community, really.

But I thought I had been snarky to others besides Needing_Grace. And not just snarky down right whats the word? Just jerky!!

Last night before I was mean to anyone I had just literally had such a bad time here that I screamed without opening my mouth so hard that I blinded myself. I caused myself to have chest pain and back pain simultaneously and then shoulder twitches. It was horrible how angry I was last night because of stuff stressing me out. MY special needs brother, God love and bless him, can be a pain and a jerk and he will do it TO make you mad. He's manipulative and not endearing like other special people. He's a lot of work. My 5 year old who has no special needs that we know of is a lot of work. My 2 year old who has a lot of special needs is a lot of work and my almost 1 year old is a lot of work.

And yesterday was A LOT of hassle.

But that's nobody's fault in here at all and I apologize and if I ever act like a horrible woman again I'd like someone to rep me and let me know. I sure will pray on it as well.

I'm not speaking for anyone else, but we're Catholics, we forgive you. We all have bad moments, we all have issues, whether of our own, of our family situation, or whatever. Just be the best you can be, and a simple "sorry" heart-felt, will do wonders. We're also here to help.
I saw a guy on TV last night who has an autistic child, and after going to a Special Olympics event, where those special needs kids never hate, he realized that we're the broken ones, not them.
Whenever you're feeling sorry for yourself, try reaching out to others. My sister was feeling sorry for herself after a hurricane this summer, and gave a day to help people out. She came back feeling refreshed because she realized there are those worse off than herself...

 

[cathoaholicliz]

My brother is autistic and hateful.

Just not trying to argue, just sayin. They aren't perfect and they are not all endearing. Some are even bullies.

 

[Root of Jesse]

My brother is autistic and hateful.

Just not trying to argue, just sayin. They aren't perfect and they are not all endearing. Some are even bullies.

Do you think he does it on purpose? While it's true that some people figure out that they can have everyone at their beck and call, most aren't. I really mean that as a question, I have one autistic nephew who wouldn't hurt anyone knowingly.

I'm just sayin'. Even an alcoholic who knows he's an alcoholic and drinks anyway sometimes is not responsible for his own behavior...

 

[eastcoast_bsc]

Hello everyone.

I am sorry if I have ruffled any feathers or acted like a pretty foul or mean person.

I thought about it after going to bed last night and I do apologize.

I will not bore you all with how I am doing or why I am sometimes not a nice person.

I will just try harder.







So sorry if I have been rude or mean or other words which you cannot say on a Christian forum. That's all.

No problem, we all fall short. Lord knows I have. Stick around. We are all human.