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Hey Mrs. Awesome,
This sounds exactly like what my wife went through the first few years of our life together. You see, for starters I have a really big mouth and talk to everyone. She is somewhat reserved. That was a huge deal when it came to meeting people and making new friends. Back before children (we call it b.c.,) we led a different lifestyle so the friends she had then had trouble adjusting. They eventually grew apart. They still love each other and talk occasionally but she needed much more. Due to the fact that she is a stay at home mom, she would get soooo stifled. Here is what we did:
* For starters I started inviting couples from work to have dinner with us. Going out to eat seemed to work best in the beginning.
* We got connected a a local church (couples classes were great)
* Helping at events.
* Visiting other churches was great too.
All of this took time though as she was adjusting to being out of her comfort zone. Mrs. Awesome this was very hard on her for a while. I work every day so i could never understand the depth of her longing to have some sort of companionship outside of my own. However with prayer and perseverance she has become much bolder and is starting to make new friends. Oh yeah, reaching out to her in-laws helped as well. I just want to say dont you ever give up and I am praying now that God will lead you to the perfect pal and give you peace.
P.S. I should also mention that too much social media made matters worse for a bit.
I hope this helps.
This sounds exactly like what my wife went through the first few years of our life together. You see, for starters I have a really big mouth and talk to everyone. She is somewhat reserved. That was a huge deal when it came to meeting people and making new friends. Back before children (we call it b.c.,) we led a different lifestyle so the friends she had then had trouble adjusting. They eventually grew apart. They still love each other and talk occasionally but she needed much more. Due to the fact that she is a stay at home mom, she would get soooo stifled. Here is what we did:
* For starters I started inviting couples from work to have dinner with us. Going out to eat seemed to work best in the beginning.
* We got connected a a local church (couples classes were great)
* Helping at events.
* Visiting other churches was great too.
All of this took time though as she was adjusting to being out of her comfort zone. Mrs. Awesome this was very hard on her for a while. I work every day so i could never understand the depth of her longing to have some sort of companionship outside of my own. However with prayer and perseverance she has become much bolder and is starting to make new friends. Oh yeah, reaching out to her in-laws helped as well. I just want to say dont you ever give up and I am praying now that God will lead you to the perfect pal and give you peace.
P.S. I should also mention that too much social media made matters worse for a bit.
I hope this helps.
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