This thread is based on the book by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs titled, Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs. I'm a newlywed and recieved this book as a present during my bridal shower, and am finally finding the time to read it now.
Although I find a lot of it redundant it does get an interesting point across, that women desire unconditional love most in marriage, and men desire unconditional respect from their spouses the most. The principle is based on Ephesians 5:33. I was wondering if anyone had read the book and could offer their perspective, or whatever you'd like to share.
I haven't been married long, but I have benefited from some of the teachings of this book. One, as obvious as it might sound, is to remember that we are both spouses of good will towards each other (meaning we're not acting purposely trying to hurt the other) and that I have to learn how to state my opinions in a respectful manner.
Anyway pretty simple concepts but I thought pretty good as well. I am learning to put them to good use
Although I find a lot of it redundant it does get an interesting point across, that women desire unconditional love most in marriage, and men desire unconditional respect from their spouses the most. The principle is based on Ephesians 5:33. I was wondering if anyone had read the book and could offer their perspective, or whatever you'd like to share.
I haven't been married long, but I have benefited from some of the teachings of this book. One, as obvious as it might sound, is to remember that we are both spouses of good will towards each other (meaning we're not acting purposely trying to hurt the other) and that I have to learn how to state my opinions in a respectful manner.
Anyway pretty simple concepts but I thought pretty good as well. I am learning to put them to good use