Hey guys,
SO, i'm home for the summer from university and I have been helping out with my church's youth group. I have the pleasure of hanging out with girls that are 12, 13, and 14 years old. Now, i've been building relationships with a few of them over the past few years (after having had them in my tent for camp one year).
I'm curious, if you are involved with preteens and teens, how do you talk about sex... if you talk about it at all?
I am asking because right now I am feeling a little frustrated because these girls obviously are curious (i mean, come on... it's that age there are pressures all over the place from the media that they are presented with and with their peers) but my frustration isn't in their curiosity, my frustration is in the fact that it doesn't appear that the topic has really been addressed during the lesson time, and am finding that they are coming and confiding in me, and talking about things with me. I find it hard to say anything to "help" or to give advice because they aren't being taught things about Godly relationships so there's not much to build on (I suppose that means that I should start with the foundations... it's just hard when they are wanting to skip to the top...)
I donno...do you guys talk to your youth about sex? And how do you do it
SO, i'm home for the summer from university and I have been helping out with my church's youth group. I have the pleasure of hanging out with girls that are 12, 13, and 14 years old. Now, i've been building relationships with a few of them over the past few years (after having had them in my tent for camp one year).
I'm curious, if you are involved with preteens and teens, how do you talk about sex... if you talk about it at all?
I am asking because right now I am feeling a little frustrated because these girls obviously are curious (i mean, come on... it's that age there are pressures all over the place from the media that they are presented with and with their peers) but my frustration isn't in their curiosity, my frustration is in the fact that it doesn't appear that the topic has really been addressed during the lesson time, and am finding that they are coming and confiding in me, and talking about things with me. I find it hard to say anything to "help" or to give advice because they aren't being taught things about Godly relationships so there's not much to build on (I suppose that means that I should start with the foundations... it's just hard when they are wanting to skip to the top...)
I donno...do you guys talk to your youth about sex? And how do you do it