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Say a church group met for Bible study once a week, roughly from 7-8:30 in the evening. If one of the persons in the group had a schedule conflict and could only stay for the first 20-30 minutes, would it be fair to ask them to not come to the study at all until they resolve their schedule conflict? Suppose people in the group considers early departures to be to disruptive and they dont see the point in only coming for 20-30 minutes.
Now consider the same situation, but instead of a schedule conflict. The person leaves after 20-30 minutes because they are struggling and that is all they can handle. Struggling primarily due to being hurt by another person in the group. Would it be fair to ask them to not come at all until they can handle staying the whole time? Suppose people consider it to disruptive for someone to leave early, dont see the point of them only coming for 20-30 minutes, and consider the persons behavior and struggle as unbecoming of a 'Christian' group. (i.e a Christian should forgive and get over it).
Now consider the same situation, but instead of a schedule conflict. The person leaves after 20-30 minutes because they are struggling and that is all they can handle. Struggling primarily due to being hurt by another person in the group. Would it be fair to ask them to not come at all until they can handle staying the whole time? Suppose people consider it to disruptive for someone to leave early, dont see the point of them only coming for 20-30 minutes, and consider the persons behavior and struggle as unbecoming of a 'Christian' group. (i.e a Christian should forgive and get over it).