My husband has a daughter from a previous relationship and then we have two children together as well. Our youngest is almost a year old. While I was pregnant with her my husband said that he was going to get a vasectomy. Time passed and he never got one. I had the baby and decided to get an IUD since he still had not followed through. Well, 10 months later...., guess what!? I'm pregnant again! Apparently, the IUD was still in place and everything, but somehow I still concieved. So as you can imagine I started pressing the issue of him going ahead and really getting this done. Again, he keeps saying he's going to, but he's not actually taking any measures to do it, like researching, making an appt, nothing. Then the other day he said, "well can't you just get your tubes tied?" It actually really made me angry, b/c I feel like he doesn't consider my well being and that he is being selfish. I just wanted to get some outside opinions, b/c I also wonder if I'm just being selfish. I feel like it's way more of a complicated procedure for me, it's also more expensive and I have already gone through birthing the children, nursing them, taking time off work, recovering, etc. I mean I know he can't carry the children, birth, or nurse them, but can't he do this as his part?