It's amazing what goes on in an elevator.

[Lady Bug]

I am still laughing about what happened today when I was going to leave the library.

I was on the top floor and there's a front elevator and a back elevator on the floor. (The back one is rather safe and I tend to use the back one in almost all cases because it is faster)

This young man came onto the elevator and started semi-singing at me and he was looking at me as if he wanted to get my attention. He was walking toward the front elevator at the time I saw him - so in an effort to avoid him I went to the back elevator. When I went to the back elevator I realized he was also following me into the back elevator. (I had actually thought he was going into the front one)

That was the moment I heard him semi-singing and saw that he was looking right at me (probably to see my reaction and get my attention). Somehow it didn't scare me (God knows how). I could barely keep a straight face - a part of me wanted to laugh so hard that I couldn't stand it. The guy had some sheet music in his hand and the floor I was on had music-art related books on it - so perhaps he was a music student (at one time I was going to be a music student lol).

So when the elevator went down to the first floor and the door opened, he let me out first and I smiled at him (how could I not - I was almost on the verge of laughing) and said thanks and since I was in front of him I laughed silently in a way that he couldn't see me.

Maybe this is creepy - I kind of hope I don't see him again. But I often see the same people on that floor often - it becomes people's comfort zones. Thank God I wasn't stuck in the elevator with him. Ugh.

 

[Davidnic]

Strange things happen at the library at least here. And it sounds like there too.

 

[MikeK]

A guy was singing to you and smiling at you. The propper response is (unless he's awful looking) to see if he wants to grab a cup of coffee

 

[Lady Bug]

Somehow asking him for coffee did not strike my mind The situation was kind of too weird for me to think. I think I sort of froze...

I'm ok about it now. Just makes me laugh, really.

 

[BillH]

Did he sing well?

 

[isabella1]

I think I would of actually started laughing, for poor control over the giggles.

Next time lovely lady (since you are open to looking and dating), why not sing with him. Don't be so shy. A little spontaneity can go a long way ya know. I hope you DO see him again, and he sings yet another time to you.

 

[JoabAnias]

Hmmm, if he followed you from one elevator to the other. . . .
or maybe he had the same thought you did.
Then again maybe he was serenading you on purpose. That takes courage for a guy, trust me.

 

[stephenc]

Hmmm...what was he singing?

 

[2Cosmic2Charlie]

It's amazing what goes on in an elevator.

You have no clue

 

[Victrixa]

Hehe... that's cute. Maybe he wanted to get to know you?

 

[Lady Bug]

Maybe.

This always tends to happen though (not the serenading) - someone likes me who I don't like back, and I like someone who doesn't like me back. It's been that way my whole life - and this is not an exception

 

[JoabAnias]

Maybe.

This always tends to happen though (not the serenading) - someone likes me who I don't like back, and I like someone who doesn't like me back. It's been that way my whole life - and this is not an exception

How do you know you wouldn't like him?

 

[Lady Bug]

How do you know you wouldn't like him?

I don't know...good question...maybe I jumped the gun on that last one.

 

[Michie]

I feel uncomfortable on elevators with people I don't know. The library elevator? Forget about it! I always take the stairs.

Guy coulda been nice though. *shrug* At least he didn't pass gas & then point at you on his way out.

 

[krstlros]

Maybe you should have thanked him for the song.

 

[Victrixa]

Hey ladybug!

I didn't want to know anything about the man who later became my husband... I didn't like him, he wasn't my 'style' and didn't fit my stereotypes of what a husband should be for me at the time...

Well, guess what, when I discovered how he really is, I fell in love with him...

 

[Lady Bug]

Hey ladybug!

I didn't want to know anything about the man who later became my husband... I didn't like him, he wasn't my 'style' and didn't fit my stereotypes of what a husband should be for me at the time...

Well, guess what, when I discovered how he really is, I fell in love with him...

I hear about those kinds of situations lol, I don't take them lightly

To be honest - I tend to attract African men - I will never understand why. (every once in a blue moon I'll see one at the library...although I never have really spoken to any of them, one of them just sees me and I see him) There's almost never been a time when a man from Africa (I can tell the man is not African American somehow) did not give me some sort of look (I can't believe that I'm smiling on this)...I'm baffled... but it tends to brighten up my day though.

 

[Michie]

I hear about those kinds of situations lol, I don't take them lightly

To be honest - I tend to attract African men - I will never understand why. (every once in a blue moon I'll see one at the library...although I never have really spoken to any of them, one of them just sees me and I see him) There's almost never been a time when a man from Africa (I can tell the man is not African American somehow) did not give me some sort of look (I can't believe that I'm smiling on this)...I'm baffled... but it tends to brighten up my day though.

African culture is varied. But I remember reading about the likes of African men once & whats desirable to them in a mate.

I suggest you Google it. Its interesting.

 

[Lady Bug]

ut I remember reading about the likes of African men once & whats desirable to them in a mate

lol...hmmm...okI wonder what those traits are though...except a big behind
I tend though to take culture into consideration though...I think it's important when choosing a mate...maybe it's just me

(can't believe I'm laughing right now - I really need to laugh though - I haven't had this kind of emotion in awhile...let me enjoy it albeit temporal it may be)

 

[Michie]

lol...hmmm...okI wonder what those traits are though...except a big behind
I tend though to take culture into consideration though...I think it's important when choosing a mate...maybe it's just me

(can't believe I'm laughing right now - I really need to laugh though - I haven't had this kind of emotion in awhile...let me enjoy it albeit temporal it may be)

Well you have to take into account the tribal likes & dislikes. I mean, afterall, some like their women with streched necks.

But overall, it seems a lot of african men prefer their women to be very volumptuous. Its a highly sought after trait in women.

Like I said, Google it. Its really very interesting & shows how different cultures can be. Beauty comes in many different packages all over the world.