= Just because one does not enjoy your standard of happiness or living does not make him miserable.
I'm not sure if you're arguing just to argue or what.
If you see someone crying and about to kill themselves do you say, "That person is miserable." or do you pause and say, "No wait, that's just me judging them as miserable based on my own standard of happiness; I shouldn't judge, they're probably fine; ecstatic even!"
Don't be ridiculous. We all know that someone who is lacking self-confidence is generally less happy than someone who is confident. We all know that someone who has vulnerability issues is generally less happy then someone who does not hide who they are. If someone has buried fears and baggage, any therapist would not say, "Oh good, keep that stuff buried, it'll make you happier." No, they would suggest delving into those fears and that baggage and extinguishing them.
Happiness is self-professed. If someone says and believes they are happy, then they probably are. If someone says they have all these insecurities and self-confidence issues and they say they aren't happy, then they aren't happy by definition. It doesn't require my judgment. If someone says they aren't happy, then they aren't.
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