you are factoring out the possibility that people may never want the mercy that God offers. so God does not keep them in hell, it is their will that is set against Him, and not the other way around.
we often think that the sinners in hell realize how bad it sucks, and they want out, and God says no. when in fact, it is God who asks if they have had enough, and they are the ones who say no.
That's the way that I was told to view it when it comes to the Church Fathers and the Scriptures - God is love and the most loving thing He can do for those who reject Him is to let them have their way outside of Him .....them choosing to stay away. But at the end of the day, it is a blessing that the Eastern view that exalts the triumph of the fact that God is truly Love - and His love caused Him to die for the world (even though all the other religions of the world asked their followers to alone die for their gods) and give hope for all - even those who may have died rejecting Him..
Love Wins - An Orthodox View - YouTube
Fr. Thomas Hopko (as seen
here and
here)did some good presentations on the matter...for Christ is our Atonement -
how far that atonement goes, of course, is another issue of debate all together and there are a myriad of differing perspectives on the issue..... Kallistos Ware doing an excellent discussion on the issue in
“Dare We Hope for the Salvation of All" and the thoughts of some of the Fathers such as
St Isaac the Syrian who
shared on God's Extensive Love...
C.S. Lewis' said it well when noting "The gates of hell are locked from the inside".
Both the righteous and the unrighteous are in the presence of God but being in the presence of God while willingly choosing to reject him DOES not have to mean that one cannot eventually choose the Lord. For if someone were to relent, give in and accept God's love, the torment cease and God's presence become bliss like what the righteous experience.
And yet, what we do in this life will determine what we end up going for in the next. For in this life, if we choose not to love the Lord, we eventually harden ourselves to even having a desire to choose Him - and thus, we must train ourselves in this life to Love God so that we'll be ready for Life in the next when we are further purified. Fr. John Behr did an excellent presentation on the matter that discussed the issue of why it was important that Christ died - His death connected to how His life was an example of what God was wanting and felt important:
Fr. John Behr - Death - The Final Frontier - YouTube
Of course we know that claiming that hell "will be" emptied is an anathematized heresy...
"To those who reject the immortality of the soul, the end of time, the future judgment, and eternal reward for virtue and condemnation for sin, Anathema!"
And even Metropolitan Kallistos (who is sometimes quoted to defend apocatastasis), admits that fact: "It is heretical to say that
all must be saved, for this is to deny free will; but it is legitimate to
hope that all may be saved."
Nonetheless, others in the history of the Church have advocated apocatastasis (Origen's teaching, at least in his younger speculative days) and other things directly in line with what C.S Lewis noted when it comes to Hell being optional/based on choice (as he said the doors of Hell are locked from the inside rather than from the outside - more discussed here in #
1/#
14 ).
And with God's nature being love (I John 4) - love that GAVE itself for the world (John 3:15-18) as well as those of who were elect (I John 5) - it seems God would be the one to examine and part of examination is understand His right to not make sense when it comes to both His Mercy (Matthew 20) and the dynamic of why Hell may not be eternal for others and yet lasting for some. God doesn't have to make sense since he made sense....the Mercy of God is a complicated and nuanced matter
- as said best on Ancient Faith Radio on salvation (similar to conversations from before
here,
here,
here and
here/
here ).