brokenarrow said:"what about all those young girls calling the house?"... and it kills me inside every time she does it... becuase she knows my heart... that i would never ever do anything to hurt any of them... and that i know everything i do i do before God...
Mat 18:10. "Take heed that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.
11. "For the Son of Man has come to save that which was lost.
exercise in perspective...Luke 14:25. And great multitudes went with Him. And He turned and said to them,
26. "If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple.
27. "And whoever does not bear his cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple.
Jesus was in His early 30's during His ministry here on earth... WWJD...? Did he send the female children away becuase he was afraid what people would think? Someone show me one scripture that shows that! NO!!! He willingly took flack for eating with the "sinners and tax collectors"... some of the most dispised people of thier day...Luke 7:37. And behold, a woman in the city who was a sinner, when she knew that Jesus sat at the table in the Pharisee's house, brought an alabaster flask of fragrant oil,
38. and stood at His feet behind Him weeping; and she began to wash His feet with her tears, and wiped them with the hair of her head; and she kissed His feet and anointed them with the fragrant oil.
39. Now when the Pharisee who had invited Him saw this, he spoke to himself, saying, "This man, if He were a prophet, would know who and what manner of woman this is who is touching Him, for she is a sinner.''
I love you babe... I really truly do...Mat 5:11. "Blessed are you when they revile and persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely for My sake.
That is a good point. But think about what is also lost. A married minister has more experience to help with marriage counseling. A married minister can give the greatest example of how to treat your family to the congregation. A married minister doesn't have to deal with wanting a family and not being able to have one. I think it is best a personal decision and if a person wants to throw themselves "whole heartedly" then maybe they should decide to not get married.selune said:It's at times like this that I wonder if Catholics have a fantastic idea of not letting the Fathers be married. There is no home-life that would suffer when they throw themselves whole-heartedly into the ministry. My prayers cry out for your home. Please, listen to each other and get some more counseling.
brokenarrow said:Maybe there did seem to be more girls that were attatched to me becuase it was easier for girls than guys to hug me... I could care less what "the pharasees" said about it...
Jesus was in His early 30's during His ministry here on earth... WWJD...? Did he send the female children away becuase he was afraid what people would think? ...And He HAS CALLED me to be His hugs...